I think I’m suffering from depression. And my relationship with my family is going down hill. I feel like I’m such a burden and I feel like something is seriously wrong with me. I want to tell my parents but it’s just so hard to tell them how I’m feeling. I’m 17 and I love my parents very much but I can’t live with them and get the help I need. I'm not sure if I should tell them or just let things go on the way they are and be miserable?
I noticed that when i was suffering from depression, and everytime i was having a relapse after getting better - i didnt get along with my parents. i would be irritated by them and everything they did and said seemed horrible, even if they were trying to help. i actually started blaming them for my depression and talkinga bout my horrible home life, mainly because i think i needed a reason as to why i was feeling that way, not knowing was killing me. when in reality my parents were very good to me. i suggest that you sit down and talk to your mom, or your dad - who ever youre closest with, tell them you feel sad all the time, let them know. depression is a long battle and it is not easy, its much eaiser to just lay around and cry then to make an effort to get better. but once youre better its worth every second of hard times. if you ever need someone to talk to im here for you. you can ask me anything.
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I am 14 and a female, ok, see I used to be friends with this girl Cydney in 8th grade. In the winter I invited here to a retreat for our youth group trip and she seemed fine about it, then when we get in the car she starts hanging out with this snotty girl lisa who told everybody i like girls which is NOT TRUE. And then we were on the subject about what things we liked to about each other and I asked her what she like about me and she goes well there alot of things i dont like about you. I cant help it if Im shy. My mom was shy when she was my age and still had decent friends. Thats not all we started giving her rides to school and she talks to me around my mom, but she doesnt talk to me at school. I havent done anything to her. She turned gothic too. I dont know what to do. Can any one relate.
this girl is a complete and total bitch. stop hanging around with her. you deserve better friendship than that. find friends who respect you and want your company. youll be alot happier that wway. dnt give her a ride to school anymore, tell her that youre NOT her chauffer, and youre not there to be used. basically shes using you for rides, good hang outs and whatever else you give her. and the lking girls thing? thats immature and she needs a life. find a new friend and tell her to lick your nuts (im aware that you dont have any, i just say it all the time. lol)
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My dad is such a FUCKING JERK! OMG he like hates one of my friends (my bff) and he cant ever be nice about her and he always says no when i ask to go to her house. he goes, "WHY ARE YOU SO OBSESSED WITH HER! GET YOU HEAD OUT OF YOUR ASS AND GET SOME OTHER FRIENDS" and I love my bff and he ont listen to me when i ask him to be nice and it makes me so sad because i do have other friends and i DO hang out with them, he just blocks that out of his mind to make my life miserable and i hate how he is so fucking mean!! what do i do? I am starting to feel like im missing out on life! I HATE MY LIFE! I WANT TO MOVE SOMEWHERE FAR AWAY AND I WANT TO MOVE SCHOOLS BECAUSE MY COUSINS ARE FUCKING WAYYYY TOO RELIGOUS AND LIKE THEIR WHOLE FUCKING ENTIRE LIFE REVOLVES AROUND GOD AND THEY ARE TRYING TO CHANGE ME INTO SOMEONE IM NOT AND THEY ALREADY GIVE ME ENOUGH SHIT ABOUT MY FRINEDS AND MY LIFE SUCKS ASS!!! PLEASE!! HELP ME!! WHAT DO I DO? I HATE MY LIFE AND MY DAD IS AN ASS ABOUT MY FRIENDS AND MY DUMBSHIT RELATIVES ARE FUCKING RUINING MY LIFE!!! HELP ME!
woah woah woah hun, slow your roll a bit here - i know how you feel about your dad, but think rationally here. your going to move out because he doesnt like your friend? listen. dont run away or anything dumb. i understand what youre feeling, but hes your dad and im not sure how old you are but youve got a few years left with him. the best thing to do is probably just calmly tell him that shes your friend. not his. he doesnt hav to deal with her. shes good to you, and loyal. if you REALLY Want to get technical - everytime you hang out wiht anohte rone of your friends, write it down and the date. so the next time he says you dont hang out wiht your other friends. you can tell him " on this date i did this, with this person" that a little crazy of an idea, but it might work. and also? God is not a bad thing. i honestly love my life, i used to hate it so much, but its really going good now. i go to church and everything. but im def. NOT an innocent girl. maybe you should look into that. having faith can change your life in many ways. if you wan talk more about that. just email me.
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