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my name's michaela..my friends call me kay, or kayla pretty much..im 14 years old (yeah i feel really young on here..there are so many older and more expierienced advicenators on here..o wel...live and learn) im not gonna go on about how "i give fantasmic advice!" because..that's an oppinion, and everyone should be able to have their own oppinion, so if you like my advice, thats great! and ill always be here to help you out. If you dont like it, well i'd love to hear from you about what im doing wrong so i can maybe improve a bit?
If you want to know more about me..well, i love to party and go crazy..thats like my life!! hahaha..trying to stay young as long as i can. I am really into art, painting and writing. I guess you could say i am a creative person. I like to listen to music. I like pretty much everything..rap rock r&b..you name it..EXCEPT i DESPISE country..blahhh =(..i have 3 amazing best friends..danni, kate, and izzi. They are all absolutly gorgous and amazingg..and they are always there for me. I couldnt ask for better friends. they tell me im beautiful..but i totally disagree on that one..i want to get a picture up on here..
thats probably not going to happen though..so if you want to check out my myspace..
http://www.myspace.com/xokaylao7
^^ check it outt..
i will answer questions through aim and email if you think its nessasary..
xokaylao2

advice

my parents are going through a divorce, and i am devastated. how can i get over my stress?

you just need to keep your head up. i cant say ive ever expierienced this..but ive had family problems before and i understand how frustrating it can get. So just take each day as it comes...and try to keep your mind off of it. You cant completely rid yourself of stress. But, talking to someone might help take some of it away. I would probably contact a phsyciatrist. Ive been to one before. Its not awkward at all, it helps to have someone you can confess your feelings to confidentially.

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Alright my family has a really hard time with fighting. When i was little it would get so bad it would become physical. Just a fiew nights ago it became physical again but thats beside the point. I was wondering if you guys had any tips on how I could keep my temper down towards my parents.. Is there anything I could do to control it?

Hey,
I have a horrible issue with that. I am soo bad to my parents and i realize it too..(fyi..u no incase it makes you feel better that somebody is going through the exact same thing as you)..you just have to leave the room if you get really angry...let yourself calm down..and then try and talk out whatever your problem is. Thats what i do usually...but of course..it doesn't work 100%...
pcee (:

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Ok im 13 and I have had sex twice....I know that I want to tell my mom....but i know that if I tell my mom she will tell my dad and I KNOW that he will flip out....But I had ses with a guy that i have been goin out with for 2 years already and we are still going out...so I dont think it is that big of deal...but how do I tell my parents without them like killing me??? Also do you think I am considered a slut or something because a couple people at my school do...
thanks

I dont think that you are a slut at all. If you where sleeping around with a bunch of different guys, of course that would be a different story. But you two have been together in a relationship for a pretty long time so i suppose what your doing is ok.
I dont advise you tell your parents. They will definitly not like the idea of their thirteen year old daughter being sexually active. If you do openly tell them that you've been having sex with your boyfriend..they will try and stop you from seeing him. Just keep it to yourself.

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