About Swe3ti3boO

Well, having gone through alot of struggles in my life, if there's anything I've learned its that that one saying "what doesn't kill you, will only make you stronger" this is SO true.
My screen name or nickname takes after the nickname my father gave me, however he's no longer here but I know he's up there watching me. Other than that, there have been quite a few, well, more than a few struggles that I've had to endure throughout my 17 years and I'm still going through stuff now. I'm not your average 17 y/o and I don't say that on false pretense, get to know me and you'll see.
My overcoming of struggles has taught me so much about life, alot more than school, even though the struggles may have caused me much anger and pain, I'm still here standing.
hm.. well, I've been a Boxer for the past 12 years. I stopped for a little moment for personal reasons (I'm one of the highest ranked Boxers of my class which landing me a job that I ultimately love;; I'm also a trainer in other words, I now have my own students who I can annoy the crap out of...) hehe
Anyways, I've put down the website thats linked to all my other profiles, hope you enjoy but even if you don't, noone said you had to. If theres definitly one thing about me, its that I'm real, I may come off harsh, but please understand, its just me being honest and straight forward. I'm doing this to help people, which is the best feeling in the world.
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Website: Swe3ti3 boO Gender: Female Location: New York Occupation: Boxing Instructor Age: 17 AIM: Swe3ti3boO Yahoo: Swe3ti3boO Member Since: September 19, 2005 Answers: 31 Last Update: April 14, 2006 Visitors: 2969
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hi. well, i have a younger sister. shes 2 years younger than me, and i have a problem. my bedtime this year is 10, and last year it was 10:30 [wtf..] and i even told my mom but of course all shed say was "10 is good for me..hey a bug." and whenever i get something my younger sister gets it the same year! like our allowances have been the same our whole lives, and they started when i was like 9 and she was 7. AND the year i got a cell phone SHE DID!! and i just know shes gunna get an ipod this year like i did over the summer with my own money. i hate this crap. it isnt fair that i have to wait 2 more years than her to get the same stuff she does. how do i aproach my mom? **NOTE: she ALWAYS says "because i said so" -or- "u always are complaining"
Well, if this is such a big problem try talking to your mother about it. Make her listen well enough to where your able to say "Mom, I'm older and trying to set an example for (your little sister's name) but I can't do that when me and her are being treated as if we're the same age". Yeah, 2 years isn't much of a gap however, no one wants the same type of attention the other one gets. You want your own set of things from your parents, however, them doing this could be in the best for you and your little sister "equality" making sure you guys to get upset about getting one thing but not getting what the other one got... you have to talk to your mother about or even try your dad. Best of luck, *MuaHz*
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Is 8 weeks excessive for my fiance's disruptive parents to come and stay with their 47 year old batchelor son? The father in law is critical and mean to my fiance and I can't stand to be around someon with all that negative energy. I am 35 and female. This is a major interuption to our normal lives. My finance allows them to stay with him to avoid hurricane season in their home area of Florida. I need help!
Hey chica, I understand how family members can be annoying and crude, especially when you can't do anything about it to change the situation in the first place. However, over the problems in Florida, its best to try and make the best of it. No one expected these occurences in the lower half of the U.S. Try maintaining your temper and stability around them. If they tend to annoy you too much, go to your bedroom and try going to sleep. Fill in your days with projects if you can, example: instead of walking the dog for only 2 blocks, walk him maybe 5-6 blocks; instead of having the computer in the livingroom, move it to the bedroom; put a sterio/radio in your bedroom, I'm not saying close yourself into your bedroom, however, make it suitable to where if they aggravate you too much, you can blow it off quickly/easily just by having things to do. Try having "family night" once a week, go out to watch a new movie, doesn't matter what its about, just go and see if you all will like it. Go shopping, out to eat, try anything that could possibly make things either for all of you. Best of luck chica! *MuaHz*
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