Hi, My real name is Christian. I'm 15 going on sixteen in march. I have problems like anyone else here which is why I try to help you guys. Because I know that like me all you guys need is some advice hence the site lol:]. You can contact me on my AIM or MSN just specify yourself don't say "OH I'm that guy you helped out.", Like if your name is John say "I'm John.", :D. I don't expect to make friends out of this but if you want to be friends I'll give you my Myspace. Anyways...Goodbye.
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Ok...I am a 22 yr old parent of two young children. I live next to my parents. Trying to move to Tennessee. I am a full time college student also... My dad is 50 and acting like 20. My parents are getting a divorce soon, dad brings his other girl to my house all the time, I have said I dont want to get in the middle of things. I dont really talk to my mom anymore b/c she thinks I am on my dads side. He wont tell her he is seeing someone else. My dad has alot of medical problems. Well mom wont pay insurance and he has to wait for disbilitly check to come in to help out. Now he has no insurance, I feel like my mom doesnt want anything to do with me, my dad is doing his own thing. I feel traped. Like I cant move away, that I need to stay and try to help him. Why am I feeling this way??? I want to leave and start over with no drama. I love my parents both so much. I dont know what to do anymore. (link)
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Well i know how it feels to be trapped. My parents fight a lot and they never divorce. It's not like your situation but i know how you feel. Talk to your mom and try to reason with her. Tell your dad you don't like his lifestyle and make him come clean to your mother. Then if that doesn't work...just move away. My dads a diabetic and he is 68 :| he never takes care of himself so i have to. I'm only 15. But your 22 and you have two young children to take care of. They are your main priority. So make sure they are safe, well educated and most of all happy. Your parents should be old enough to discuss their own problems and deal with there medical problems.
Hope i helped.
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Hi,
I am 17f. I have an older bro whos 19, a jerk,an asshole,a verbal abuser,and a player. He got my only friend (who obviously wasn't my friend) to turn against me,decide to backstab and lie to me, so he could date her. He now sucks faces with her in front of me when he comes home on weekends,flirts,and sometimes has sex with her in the basement (eww..). Lets just say I don't have any respect for either of them.. but my mom AND my sister totally love this girl. My mom treats her like the favorite daughter she never had (at first I thought it was my sister who was the favorite since shes the baby but now im not so sure..), listens to her more than she ever does me, invites her over for supper consistantly, and invites her to all our family gatherings. I can't stand having this girl who did all these horrible things to me being treated so nicely by my family of all people. No matter what I say or what I feel,it goes in one ear of my mom and goes out the other.
Just the other day,my brother was verbally abusing me to the point of extreme frustration. He called me an 'asshole,bitch,dumbass' etc (he is an immature child who plays killing video games for eight or more hours when he is home). I decided to say something to defend myself. I said 'stop being hater' and his response was: grabbing my arm hard,twisting,leaving a bruise on it,and laughing. It really hurt and because of being tired and a bit depressed from being verbally abused constantly,I realized I was going to break down,went to the bathroom and started crying in front of the mirror. Its just frustrating when all of this happens on a regular bases.. I went to the bathroom because I know that if he sees me with a tear he will just verbally abuse me more,then i will be more sad,my mom will find out,give him heck,then he will come after me again (saying Im a tattler and such).
So, this is a day later.. My arm is a little sore when I move it, I can feel the bruise as I type. It is not bad, but I feel as if this is not necissary at all. The thing is I can't really do anything without being attacked because everyone is on his side cause hes older (except my mom,who he hardly listens to).
Heres my main problem though: This Saturday, I booked off work to go to my grandmas for our family christmas, and my mom made sure that my asshole brother is coming and my 'so called' friend is (of course) totally invited too. You do not know how much hurt I feel inside of me just looking at her or him. There is this deep balled up feeling within my chest that says 'im frustrated' all the time when they are here. The problem I have with her is that I really need loyalty in my life. I have had no other friends besides her (I have grown up with kidney failure), and seeing such mistrust is killing me. I am a very loyal,honest person. I know I should let it go,try to ignore,and move on..but when its living in your day to day life,how do you excape it? I really don't want to go to this christmas thing,because for the last couple years I have been getting this same balled up feeling whenever I even have to be in the same room as them. They are the definition of betrayal.. and that is an ultimate no in my world.
More than anything I need someone whom I can trust.. and who will love me. I don't know if I should go to this gathering.. I will be going back to my grandmas anyhow a few days after that during the holidays for several days.. but I don't know if I can ride four hours this saturday in a vehicle with my brother and 'her' sucking faces,my sister cheering them on,and my mom. Its just a frustrating situation. Do you see where I am coming from? Should I go? Please help
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You should just not go and find somewhere to hang out. But if you do go, Be as strong as you can. I know how it feels to be back stabbed and neglected but i somehow pull through. Trust me when i say this: when you are old enough just leave for somewhere for the weekend, RENO, NEW YORK, it does not matter but just have fun. You might meet a new friend or friends! :D
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