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Q: im grounded....not allowed to do anything, just recently quite doing drugs and all that bad shit. Ive been grounded for like 2 months now....and today(interesting how its 4-20) my dad comes up to me and tells me he knows im doing something wrong, and hes gunna find out what it is...im like.....UHHH ok good fuckin luck faggot!!!I didnt do anything wrong!!!nothing and suddenly now he thinks he knows me and he thinks he knows wen im doing something wrong..wen ive been coming home high almost every weekend for the past year and he never knew....Im so mad cuz i didnt do anything and he suddnely doesnt trust me anymore, right wen i thought i was earning his trust back....what should i do?? he just went out to dinner and ive been calling him every 15 mins and letting him know im still home and i aint doin shit!i told him that i was mad and hung up on him..!!I have enuff problems and he makes them 10 millions times worse.....is that wat parents are here for or something???
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You've been doing the wrong thing for the past year, and now that you're actually getting things together, people loose trust in you. You are obviously mad. I would be too if someone was accusing me of something I didn't do. But parents tend to suspect you of the craziest things. My advice; don't get too upset with your dad. He just worries about you. It would be worse having him not care at all. And yelling at him will only make everything worse. He could start to think you're hiding something from him. Stay as calm as you can, but make sure you get the point across that you are doing nothing wrong right now. Try not to make it a huge argument. It will be hard, and it will take time to regain his trust. But eventually it will come back. Just don't do anything to extreme in the next few weeks. Try hard to stay away from things that you know will get you into trouble. That will only make matters worse. That's all the advice I have for you. You can take it, or forget it. It's really up to you. Good Luck though.
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Everyone has problems. Talking about them is just one way to deal with them. You can't solve everything on your own. That's why I'm here. To try and let you see your situation in my perspective. If you come to me with your problems, I'll give you a truthful answer. Lying to you will only make matters worse.
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Gender: Female Location: USA Age: 15 AIM: Member Since: April 20, 2005 Answers: 12 Last Update: January 26, 2006 Visitors: 1746
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