I have blonde hair and brown eyes, i am 5'2", i have a best friend named Chrissy, and my dogs name is chuckie.
E-mail: Sarnica@ptd.net
Gender: Female
Location: Pennsylvaina
Occupation: none (yea i have no job!)
Age: 14
Member Since: September 13, 2004
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this is going to be long...
I have this gut feeling that my brother is gay. I really believe that he is. I don't have a problem with it or anything because I love gay people. His best friend is bisexual even though he won't admit it. He's kissed guys in the back of school and I've seen him and he also kisses girls. So I pretty much know he's bi. So getting back to my brother, I just really think that he's gay! I swear it's like i have gay-dar or something like that, he's always staring at my boyfriend when he comes over, when he has his friends over, they are in his room for like 2 freakin hours WITH THE DOOR LOCKED and if he hears me walking up to the door he yells at me. I mean come on, he's never had a girlfriend and he always says he doesn't want one and that he'd never get married. He says, and I will quote, "Girls are a waste of my time." When I told some of my friends that I thought he was gay, they all responded with "I always knew something was up with your brother." Or something along those lines. Even guys that barely know my brother say that he's gay. My only worry is that my dad is homophobic, and my mom said that she'd be really upset if she found out that he was gay even though she has gay friends. How do I tell my mom of my suspicions? If it's true how would my dad react in the future when he comes out? How can I deal with this?? (link)
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Ok, despite the upsetting truth about your brother, i love the way you used gay-dar! LOL
anyway, lets be serious. If your brothe is gay, just ask him for five minutes of his time, and talk to him about your suspicions. I mean come on, its not like u 2 are strangers! If he cant connect with you, talk to your school guidance counselor. They are perfect with solving problems, and everything stays confidential.
On another note, if your parents cant accept the fact that their son is gay, than they arent very understandable parents(no offense). to make your parents understand (that is if your brother is actually gay) is to come out like this," hey mom,dad, if i started wearing dark gothic looking clothes, would you still love me?" if their replys is yes and you tell them about your brother, they should say the same thing. But if they don't, Explain.
I really hope i helped!
sarah742
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