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The Names Nesmira. I turned 15 on Dec. 13th (: Yay me, but kinda sucks becuase i still didnt get my Permit. GAY? yes i no. Anyway I have blonde hair and blue eyes. (: I am 100% Bosnian [muslim] and veryy proud of that. you wanna hate knock yourselves out, dont bother me. =p Well im currently a Sophmore at Bayless Sr. High [class of `10 baby] (: It may be a pretty small school and not the riches but hey its amazing (:. My all time favorite sport is Basketball i loooveee it. i also enjoy playin volleyball and soccer, but it sucks becuase i cant play soccer anymore. :( and i hate it. Well im orginally from Srebrenica, Bosnia but i currenly live in Saint Louis (: i love my family & friends, they are amazing. [mina, ajsa, amela t, azra, edina , vildana] i dont know what i would do without these girls. esp the boznian mobn [mina.amela t. & azra] ♥ . life would most definetly suck without them. Well ya i love all my other friends, you know who yu are. (: well um i dont care what you thnk of me or what i do, its just your opinion. i love to have fun, laugh and make others laugh. i`M very nice unless you piss me off then i can be the biggest biotch. ever. that just how it goes.




LIKES: chocolate, traveling, shoes & clothes , movies, myspacing, soccer guys, (: music, shopping, SUMMER, being European, animals, people who can make me laugh, people who love to have fun, moneey (: , televsion, computer, PHONE, aim, BOSNA, my amazing friends, hanging out with friends, BERIX, bosnian food (;, McDonadls, BASKETBALL, soccer, volleyball, being acctive, the beach, swimming, tanning, fashion, taking random pictures, swings, rollercoaster, coloring, make-up, ribbons, flip flops, black & white pictures, oversized sunglasses, strawberries, GUM, cookies (:, Nicole Richie, Paris Hilton, ANGLINA JOLIE, Paul walker, Christiano Ronaldo, (: && most def. Channingg Tattummmmmm (: , ONE TREE HILL, Passions, The Hills, Laguna Beach, real friends & muccccchhh more..


DISLIKES: Fake friends, biotches, stupid commercials, being bored, bugs, heights, feet, blood eww, Chain Letters, two faced people, white socks, TENNIS SHOES ugh, wanna bew`s, when people change soo quickly, sea food, homework, winter- even tho its pretty soemtimes, cheesy songs ugh, when poeple put others down.


OK well tthat`s more then enough. dont be shyt to Ask me anything, i will answer the best i can (:

♥ Nesmira

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I am not such an openminded girl. But ive been living with this cruel load on my shoulder for the past 10 years. That load would be my father. Hes amazing person and i love him but hes not th e best father and husband. he never hurt me GOSH NO! but hes never home, never drives me anywhere never does the father stuff and my parnets rarley talk. my mom tries to get my dad to go out to dinner he wont. this has been going on for a really long time. like i wont care to speak back to my mom but to my dad im petrified! i dont know why! i do everythign with my mom and i feel really bad for her. until i found out recently that my mom finally did somehting about it. she started (without telling any of her 5 kids, well she told my 19 year old sister) fialing. i, not being stupid, realaized. so once i asked my mom and she was liek acting dumb she slike whta do u think i should do so she told my sister that i asked and my sister told me the truth. then the other day she was drving me somewhere and she yelled in the phone so i said MOM YOU YELLED--OWW!!!. and she went phyco. yelling at me fo rbeng direcpectble (which is undertsandable-- i was) but hten came the break down. she brought up all about my father and crazy things about money and thing i should nto know about! i really got scard. once hs eused the quote "im sorry this happned to our family" i knw it was bad. but sh ewasnt telling me she was YELING and making it as if it was my foult. i ried and had a breakdown as well. then the rest fo the ride she apoligized and i ignored and wtvr. the next day she called me evry second. i ignored all calls. fiannly my cousin made me answer it and i was very emoitonless. i answered everything I DONT KNOW. she asked me if i purposly didnt asnwer the phone i said yes. she apoligized admitted to crying the night, when she has no idea whta i went torugh the ngiht she yelled at me!! i called my friend histerical crying !! omg my firne never saw me like that. but aanyways she feels really bad and i want to forgive her but for somereason i cant. i just cant. liek my body wont let me on th ephone say anyting. liek i just dotn understand this.

-C

but that car ride was serously hell. i thought i was in a movie. she was screamimgn at me like crazy things that i shouldnt not be worrying about that right now i am. MONEY-CAMP-LOVE- etc.

please anyone?

Well maybe you should forgive her, becuase it may not be that she wanted to yell at you, she probably just had all that inside of her, and since your dad is never home she may no have anyone to talk to her and telll them how she feels, so she jsut keeps it all inside, and there comes a point where you just can`t anymore and you take it out on people who nevr did anythin to deserve it. You should just try talkin to her about it, and def forgive her i mean shes your mother and i get that she yelled at you, and told you about stuff that you probably dont even care but hey it happens when people keep things in too much, and they cant take it anymore they find someone and just yell at them, and that def isnt fair and she shouldn`t ahve took it all out on you, you should just talk to her about it, it will make it easier on you and easier to forgive here .

& hope i helped

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