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My Grandpa and I have never had a relationship. I don't dislike him or anything but we've just never bonded or had anything to talk about. Recently I found out he has stage 4 lung cancer. My mother has been guilt tripping me about how I haven't called him (he lives in Georgia and I am in California). I do not want to make him feel weird or awkward or anything because we have never spoke on the phone. We haven't spoke in years actually. Am I wrong for not calling? I feel it is a bit of a selfish act but at the same time don't want him to realize I am calling just because he is dying. This sounds so awful. Words of advice please. (link)
Hi, I'm MadameFrappe.
Look, you just need to call him. don't bring up the fact that hes dying though. just talk to him. i know it may be too late to get to know him but maybe if you two just talk and stuff....

I hope your grandpa is okay. :)
Prayers for you and your family.

Love, MadameFrappe




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