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My Grandpa and I have never had a relationship. I don't dislike him or anything but we've just never bonded or had anything to talk about. Recently I found out he has stage 4 lung cancer. My mother has been guilt tripping me about how I haven't called him (he lives in Georgia and I am in California). I do not want to make him feel weird or awkward or anything because we have never spoke on the phone. We haven't spoke in years actually. Am I wrong for not calling? I feel it is a bit of a selfish act but at the same time don't want him to realize I am calling just because he is dying. This sounds so awful. Words of advice please. (link)
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Hi, I'm MadameFrappe.
Look, you just need to call him. don't bring up the fact that hes dying though. just talk to him. i know it may be too late to get to know him but maybe if you two just talk and stuff....
I hope your grandpa is okay. :)
Prayers for you and your family.
Love, MadameFrappe
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