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i started dating this guy and really thought he was the one..but when i introduced him to my family they hated him..so we kept going out and he came to support me in a pagent i was doing and afterwards my parents told me i had to choose between him and them and if i choose him i ad to move out.So i choose them but didnt have the heart to tell my bf and so the other night i did and now he has turned really horrible to me telling me he never cared about me knowing that it hurts..any advice?

You made the right choice.

When you're in a relationship, It's best to listen to the 3rd party (Note: Has to be someone who you trust) Since observers know best.
Like people watching dramas, They have better views than the ones in it.

Choosing between family and boyfriend...
You only have one 'Dad/Mom' no one can replace that but you have millions of men out there waiting for you. Why risk losing your family over one fish in the sea?

Telling you he never cared about you WAS a lie, Indeed, The reason he said what he said is because he was frustrated that he wasn't the one you choose, Something like ... 'Feel of betrayal'.

Advice:
Talk to him and ask him why he said what he said.
Make everything cleared so there won't be any misunderstandings. If you both want to get back together, Tell him to have a talk with your parents, Ask them for a second chance, Before telling him to talk with your parents, You should make him clear up his mind, If he simply ask them for forgiveness/second chance, It would seem that he isn't sincere enough. He needs to clear up his mind/head (I don't mean getting head shaved) and honestly talk to you and your parents, Lastly ask them for a second chance.
And of course, After you've sort things out with your boyfriend and he's willing to do that.
If he behaves the same, And your parents still don't like him.

Take a deep breathe.
Count to 10.
And dump him immidiately.

If you're doing okay the way it is, And is now moving on, Don't turn back. Keep going, You won't reach happiness easily if you make right and left stops or turn backward.

Hope it helps, Even a little.

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