My name is Kate! I'm energetic, spunky, nice, caring, considerate, kind, friendly, and most of all a dork! I love to go on vacation and go tanning, but tanning salons are BAD for you so i don't go to those! besides, there like fake tans! I hate fake things, people, objects and obsessions! I can't spell and you'll find that out sooner or later.. I'm a cheerleader..I'm a sophmore.. I love the colors PINK and ORANGE and GREEN! they rock! haha I wish I was Barbie... she's perfect.. haha she's my idol.. I wouldn't be able to live without make-up, shopping, dancing, friends, or beaches.. it's sad..but its true.. I'm trying this site out because some of my friends told me I give good advice at times.. and also I give sucky advice! And I love to help people so this should be fun for when I'm super bored..right? Anyway I hope I help with all your questions and believe me-- everyone, makes mistakes every once and a while!
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Age: 16
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sorry is this is long but I really need help so please don't skip over it
Ok my parents have been divorced my whole life I don't even know who my dad is. Well my mom has serious problems with finding guys. They usually beat her or cheat on her. I've had about a dozen stepfathers and all of them treat her like shit and she doesn't deserve that. Well my newest stepfather Richie has been with my mother for 2 years now and she is really happy with him. I've never seen my mom this happy before. He is soo nice to her. But the thing is he has a son (my stepbrother) who is constantly hitting me and raping me. I tried talking to my mom about it and she said that she would talk to my stepdad and my stepbrother. She did and then it stopped for a little while but then he did it again and it was even worse than it was before. He had a couple of his friends over and they thought that it would be fun to beat and rape his 14 year old step sister. I talked to my stepdad and he told me to stop making things up. He told my mother that I was making things up and they sent me to a shrink. Needless to say my stepbrother continued to do these things to me. I confronted my mother again and she told me to talk to my stepdad. I did and he told me that I was lying and that even if I wasn't I needed to get over it because we are a happy family and we all have to make sacrifices I told him that that was wrong and he hit me! Now he's been hitting me too when my mom isn't around. I don't know what to do. She is soo happy and she deserves to be. I don't want to ruin this for her. My question is should I just deal with this so that she can be happy or is there anyway that I can get help without ruining this for her? (link)
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Tell them if this continues to happen that you will call the police and have the phone in your hand! Stand-up for yourself, if this continues to happen move out.. i know your only 14 but if you have a close friend you can stay with, talk to, or have over when your alone then have him or her there.. or go to there house or go live with your aunt/uncle or someone close! don't let this happen to you
Kate♥
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