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Q: Hi, My mom is 100% careless, she gets me whatever i want, like anything, but i asked her tonight "Can i go to victorias secret to get bras and underwears?" she was like, THATS FUC*ING INSANE! I dont even wear that?! You'll get it when i start!" and shes 46, my sister, whom is 19.. turning 20 in january, she gets it with my MOMS CREDIT CARD! its redicilous! All of my friends wear their bras, but of corse, mine are from like, target, and the rest of my clothing is from abercrombie, it doesnt make sence! HOW CAN I TELL HER I DESERVE STUFF FROM THAT STORE!? and i already have underwear from there, my mom gave me her credit card when i was on a school trip in washington DC. and i got stuff in the mall, its pissing me off!

* what can i do to prove to her that i should be allowed to wear it?
* why do you think she wont let me?
* she wants my father to pay for it, just like everything else.

Victoria secret is just expensive underwear its nothing grate. and maybe she thinks your to young or maybe she thinks that store is not appropriate.
but i suppose if you rely want it then you could ask for it agen and try to talk it out with her, or your dad hoo ever is paying for it, simply state your case and respect there answer!!! it may not be the answer you want but by showing you respect them and there disquisition they may consider it over agen.but DON'T STORM OFF it shows that your imacher and don't respect anything they say

Q: My friend is 14 right now, she will be 15 in November. She wants to get a restraining order to get away from her alcoholic father. now my questions are:
-is it legal for her to get one on her own?
-if its not legal, how old does she have to be to get one on her own?
[we live in CT, btw]. and her mom wont get her one, but she just doesnt want to live with her dad anymore because hes constantly on her case. her parents are divorced.

so any information would be great. thnx =]

http://www.larcc.org/pamphlets/children_family/get_restraining_order.htm

this site has some good info. hope it'll help

Q: Hi ! I'm 13 and I want to know...can I divoirce my parents or something god I just want to block them out of my life all together tips advice or suggestions ?

you could get emancipated which is basically the same thing but before you do anything like that think VARY hard do you relay want to be out all alone i meen when you think about it there may be times when you want to get rid of them but you have to remember they love you and you love them. so i would not recommend it at all but if you have thought about and talked it over emancipation is the way to go lol but it is a very serous thing u cant just be like okay by and the be like i changed my mind when its over so like i said think VARY HARD!!!

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