Hey im a pretty nice person who needs alot of help im a little messy with my life so it could be polished a bit but i love to help people and im pretty good with advice so im told so yea..
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Age: 15
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ok so heres the deal. my mom and dad divorded when i was 2 years old. he already had kids with his wife before he married my mom and so they never have liked me (my half sisters) since they were older and one has a daughter that is only 5 months younger than me so they never liked my mom either since shes 16 years younger than their dad and my dad... so they of course hate me and my dad sorta likes me well i know he loves me as his child but he never approves of how i do my hair, how i dress or anything. he doesnt like that all my friends are guys. he doesnt like anything about me... my music... or anything. hes always unhappy about something im doing. so yeah. i have TRIED SO HARD to make him like me and to make my relationship better with him but he seems to always find a way out. and hes 62 and has had a heart attach and since i dont live with him i live with my mom i dont see him alot and he keeps telling me if i dont like it out there i should just come twice a year instead of twice a month. its gotten to where i hate to go although i want to be close to him but now i just seem to cry about it everyday and i want to give up. so should i just give up on him and not really have a dad since he doesnt act like my dad as it is... or keep trying and feel the pain. im just afraid hes gonna die and ill never know what its like to have a good father daughter relationship. opinions/advice please! i rate 5's. (link)
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Hey lol im so sorry..i wouldnt no what thats like but i hope you will figure things out...uhmm i would try a little longer just to see..maybe try things you never thought would work..they usually do...uhmm if that doesnt work eventually id say give a rest at least for a while i mean thats not really acting like a dad what he is doing...another option is to confront him ask him why you feel your not good enough for him its ohkay to spill your tears and let it out you might feel better maybe hell notice what hes doing wrong is SO COMPLETLY WRONG and if he doesnt and it just brings more pain when he says something else just take a deep breath and walk away and then id say just let it go thats not a dad...but when your older and married you'll get to see your husband..and you can always make sure he treats your kids right...hope i helped try to stay on the bright side!!
Tawny
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Sometimes my parents and I just dont get along..Sometimes i dont feel like listening to them so then i get in trouble..Its like im always grounded and I dont get to do anything fun anymore! I just dont want to do what they tell me to do..Please try to help...thankss (link)
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Try to understand your parents point of veiw and try to make them see yours im sure you can compromise something..and you have to give a little such as chores to get a little like going to the movies with friend!
hope i helped
Tawny
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