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ok i love my parents, both of them equally. but lately (past couple years) they have been fighting quite a bit...sometimes it gets physical on both parts. ive never really stepped in b4 ive usually kept to myself or expressed my feelings later when they were in a better mood. but just like a month ago while my family and i were on vacation and in the middle of the night they started yelling at each other! and u wanna know what it was about!? a friggin hat!! i guess my mom felt guilty for buying a 40$ shirt and w/ no reason got on my dads case about his 40$ hat. and my dad got "hurt" by it. it was pathetic at the most. so finally upset by the fact that they woke me up and we still had a full day ahead of ourselves and just cause i was tired of it all i got out of bed and barged in on them. my mom in tears yelled go back to bed but i yelled back no this is stupid u guys r fighting while we r on vacation. anyways i ended up mediating for them until 3 in the morning when things seemed to finally be settled and they thanked me and apologized profusly. anyways things were ok the next day until i duno all of a sudden they were yelling again in the middle of disneyland. my mom was crying nad they were both yelling and acting so childish. i was so embarrassed i just ran away from it hoping to reach a bathroom. my dad caught up w/ me and told me he was sorry and that "we would fix this" and i yelled at him a bit for how stupid it all was and he apologized and we went back to my mom and they both apologized then too and hte rest of the vacation was great. i love my parents they r awesome and since then everything has been great... nothing wrong. but now this morning!!! im not sure what started the fight because i was still sleeping until my dad started screaming. but it ended up being that they were fighting about who "broke the rule" first. i guess my mom slapped him aside the head to get him to calm don and my dad slapped her across the face and they are now currently as i type yelling about who started what. its soooo pathetic!! i just wanna walk in and thell them how friggin childish and immature they r!! but im not sure if i should... really it hurt when i had to mediate for 3 hours. i dont know what to do... they swore they would get counciling when i was helping them a month ago but nothing has happened of course. oh and my dad is bypolar and add. and my mom seems to expect to much w/ his condition....grrr (link)
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Well for 1 thing being bi popar is not an easy thing to handle , I am so yes i would know . And your mom should know that jumping on your dads case for that hat was not nessacry .; With him being bi poolar little things will set him off , so if i where you i would talk to her alone and let her know that she needs to stop doing things to get on his case . Now as far as your dad goes he needs to just leave and go somewhere alone when he feel a heated arguement going on so that way nothing gets physical or worse cause one day he could her a little to hard and being bi polar , I know for a fact no matter how big or small he is he can really hurt her . SO sit them down and tell them they do need to argue over petty things and they also need to go to counseling if they can not fix thier issues on their own .
Please e-mail if you need to know anything else morethanuthinkiam91@hotmail.com
Erin
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everyone is calling my mom a slut an stuff just cause a few weekz ago at the feast my mom got really drunk (like always) an she wuz actin slutty an stuff (flirtin wit everyone an stuff) she was wearing a really hoochie outfit to an she was like yelling at me cause i was embarrest i tryed to talk to my mom but she kept yellilng at me an sayin "YOUR EMBRARRSING ME FOR CRYING!!!" mean while she was the reason i was crying! i really dont know how to handle my mom! she gets drunk to often! an i think she may be doing pot cause i walk in her room an like it smells like pot or somthing (its so not cigs!)
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I think you need you need to just tell her she is acting like a child and needs to grow up have some of ure family and her friends there to back you up . DO not hold anything back tell her she is acts like a whore when she is drunk and even though she thinks it isn't bad tell her it really is . Let her know how this affects you , and if it doesn't get better try to find family that you can move in with cause she isn't going to do anything except get worse if someone doesn't stop her . Send to the meetings with people who are achohlics ( spelling ?) get together to talk about and overcome their problems. I hope this helps . E-mail me at morethanuthinkiam91@hotmail.com to let me know what you decided to do or if you need more advice .
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im moving to a new house and i couldnt be more happier about it. the only thing that i thought was bothering me was the fact that its out in the middle of no where! but last night i broke down talking to a friend and realized more was bugging me. I live with my grandparents because my mom has a boyfriend that i was never really fond of. he use to hurt her a lot and she picked him over me. so i moved out.she still comes over every day to my grandparents house to visite me but now that we are moving i dont see her driving every day an extra 10 minutes to see me. she lives not even 2 minutes from me now and now im moving farther! i hate the fact that im moving away from my parents because they are my parents but yet i can never live with them and im still hurt from what happen. i dont know what to think or do? (link)
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The funny thing about this situation is I understand EVERYTHING you are going through , I live with my grandparents because my mtoher chose her lazy , jobless, complaing , self centered ...etc. boyfriend over me . Now not only do I not live with her , we live in different towns ( 45 minutes apart) . I think you need to choose what is best for you . Yes even if you move with your grandparents again youwill miss her more , but still you will be happier than seeing her get mis - treated . If you have any more questions or comments or want to know anything else about me , e-mail me at : morethanuthinkiam91@hotmail.com
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