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My mom thinks I'm to young to date, ?I'm 13/f. How can I get her to think I'm responsible to date now? She said I have to wait until I'm 16!!!!!! (link)
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Hun I'd listen to your parents, now a days you can't trust guys because they say there in love with you...then you say your in love with them!!! It turns out that the guy will probably hurt you, guys will get there way into your life so they can do whatever it takes to break your heart!!! Trust me I've had experience on this....I'm 17 and a female...hun I'd take my advice and listen to your parents I didn't start dating until 16. Take care.
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ok here it goes -- my dad treats my mom like she's nothing! He yells, cusses..and so much more. I can't even count the amount of times he's called her worthless. And she can't do anything about it, because that's how it's always been in my culture, women have no say. Now this has caused alot of problems between me and my father, but that's not what I'm here to talk about now..now it's about my mom. Lately, I've noticed..it's been getting to her. She doesn't say anyting to him, but when he leaves...oh my. It can be like "sure, honey, I'll do whatever you please.." after he's said something rude to her. But the minute he walks out the door it'll be like "Sweetheart, tonight..sleep in my bedroom, so your father won't be able to find anywhere to sleep but the couch or somewhere else. And alot more. And I know it's stupid, but it REALLY hurts me. I cry alot about it because..he's turned my wonderful mom to..a miserable, bitter woman" She used to be such a good person, always wanting the best for everyone! And now, she just wants to harm and hurt my father. And it hurts. And I can't talk to them about it. What can I do? And for the record, my mom is a "shrink" and she keeps telling about her analyzations, like once..my dad was yelling at me and my brotehrs, and when he left she said "It's because of his childhood. His parents hated him, his siblings hated him..everyone hates him because when he was young he was always a very bad person who spoke rudely to people, and he was never loved..and blah blah blah, and that's why.." you know? And I don't want to hear that! It hurts ALOT to hear such things about my father, and to know how much my mom HATES him. And like, my mom has no friends, so I want to be there for her, no that I'm a teen, and I want to be someone she can talk to..I know she's doing it to release anger..but still it hurts. It's like the song "because of you - kelly clarkson" when I heard it, I cried all night. Because I totally understand, my mom is totally leaning on me, and she has no one else so I don't blame her, but still...have you seen the video for it? I can totally recognize! And I just don't know what to do!! PLEASE help me! ♥ thank you! (link)
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Hey if it gets worse and your father begins hitting you, I'd go to the police ok? If you need anyone to talk to if you have AIM feel free to IM me ok? My screen name is DirtJumperKelley. I hope you the best luck and your in my prayers
Kelley
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