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I'm 23 yrs old male. I am from Indonesia. Something just triggered me to ask this now. When I was a child (8 or 10 maybe), my father tend to touch my genital and i get hard (not in a fondling manner but only a poke). He sometimes kisses my ears so i get an erection too. BUT it is not in a creepy, forced, sexual way. It's more of a playful thing. He sometimes wrestle me or tickles me then does that and we just laugh
Thing is, I kinda liked the sexual stimulation i got back then. I would sometimes intentionally stay beside him to 'play'. And i think it affected me now. I just want to confirm if it really was sexual abuse or im just overthinking (I dont know if its really abuse because i also see some people touch the genitals of other young boys to tease them in public here) (link)
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well, sounds like it could of been a mild sexual abuse. talk to your mother about it if can or sibling and then tell your dad how it made you feel and forgive him , as none are perfect, as another has said its not normal for a parent to toch genitals less its diaper changing and the ear thing is also not a good thing as its a flirtatious act. hope you get better ill pray for you!
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