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Age: 17
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My parents give me no freedom whatsoever and it drives me crazy. My friends are allowed to do whatever they want, even the ones with overly strict parents get more freedom than I do. I know right now, there is nothing I can do about it, but when I turn 18 I want nothing more than to move out of my parents house. The problem is I doubt ill have enough money, im trying to get into a very expensive college my parents were planning to help pay for, I don't have a car yet, and I live in Mississippi so the legal age is 21. Can anyone help me with these issues? I read online that there was a way to move out at 18 even if your from one of the states that say to be 21. Would the police make me return home? I know this is many questions, but I'm very desperate (link)
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Show your parents that you are mature and responsable, and talk with them about give you a longer leash. I heard if you do more thing for and with your family and parents, they start allowing you to do more. Share you interest in doing more things such as hanging out with your friends. Until you are able to move out on your own try my advice it may change you decisions on moving out so early, when you are able to do more. It becomes a lot harder when you more out and most people who do, end up missing their parents and move back in after. Maybe your parents aren't paying as much attention to you as they should be so maybe they don't even notice what you are doing and what kind of person you actually are. Share with them your frustration with them in a positive manner. Good Luck!
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I am a 21 year old female university student and my parents really just won't leave me alone! I have a curfew of 12 o clock according to them, but if I ever go out they send me messages and call constantly asking when I'll be back, well before 12. I suppose the motivation behind this question goes back to an hour ago, I asked permission to go to the mall with my friends and my father said no that its too dangerous. I've spoken to them many times about this and at the time they agree that I would have some space but they never follow through. This is making me really miserable, and I just want them to understand that I'm an adult and want to have my own life. What could I do to make them let go? (link)
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I think you should talk to them about being less involved in your life. You should show them that you can take care of yourself. they are most likely only afraid of losing there little girl, and I'm sure that deep down inside your scared to live on your own and be without your parents. I think you should meet them half way. Talk to them and Good Luck!
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