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hello fellow advice seekers, my name is Johanna and I'm currently a student about to enter high school. My days are spent with my friends, family, music, and camera. I've been known for my advice and don't turn down any questions. Feedback makes me happy, so I can give everyone the answers they want.

in my point of view, i accel in these topics:
-friendships
-relationships
-school/work
-ideas/helpful tips

and who knows? maybe ill gain some knowledge by actually thinking of new situations.

it cant hurt to get my opinion, now can it? so ask away my friends.

sincerely, ask_anything

advice

My friend has has some things happen to her this year, and she cut herself afew days ago! She is the nicest person I have ever met in my entire life and I'm not even exaderating. What should I do?

well first you should obviously tell her how concerned you are about her, and you want to help her fix things. i know it's hard to see a friend you're very close to fall apart =\ .. i had a friend who needed me, and trust me you want to get things done now before they get even worse. getting her help with her problems will be the best suggestion i can give you - talk to her, have her talk to her parents or your parents talk to her parents .etc. and tell her you'll be there no matter what - as long as try to keep to your promise . hope your friend gets better soon! =] -ask_anything

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my cousin is in my school, he made it so easy for me to fit in there and im soo happy for it..he has so much going for him and now he smokes pot like alotttt he didnt as much before..but i really want him to stop b.c my mom and sister are messed up like that and i dont want it to happen to him, hes an amazing soccer player and everything...how can i talk to him or get him to stop w.o sounding like a health freak?

telling your cousin to not do pot- does NOT make you a health freak at all. if you even mention it, that's being one of the strongest people that person can have. you could be a reason your cousin doesn't get in a lot of trouble and get hurt. anyway talking to him will NOT make you a health freak no matter how much you think you do sound like one. ... actually- just dont lecture... then you would lol... but talk to him face to face or however you feel comfortable. you're just concerned, that's really good. =] -ask_anything

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I am just getting to know this really nice girl. She told me something about her best friend by accident though. Her mother abuses her. She has the capacity to kill her one day. She broke her leg when she was four. I really don't know what to do because I really like this new girl but I don't wanna seem like I'm betraying her just at the beginning, you know? And I don't really know the abused girl but my friend would never lie about that. What should I do?

-- Scared

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Well im not sure why you would be betraying her... Some people have it worse than they should- and it's good this girl can trust you... even if it was by accident. there's nothing wrong with being friends or more with her, and her friend that you dont know, shouldn't affect the relationship too much... not sure what you mean when you said you'd be betraying her... but you can ask more if you want just ask one for my inbox. dont be scared- things will be fine. =] -ask_anything

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i have 3 brothers and my dad...(my mom too but she isnt the prob.) well anyway..they ALWAYS piss on the seat..sometimes its a lot and i HATE that! im always the one to have to spray disinfectant and wipe it off. One time i was dumb enough not to look before i sat down..and i sat in piss! how sick is that..o man. i tried telling them how mad i am about that..i even tried leaving the seat up so they have more space to aim..but its not working. Should i try all this again only more seriously this time? Please help..i just wanna be able to feel that my own bathroom is clean..im so grossed out!

any help is great thank u so much!!!!!!

ooh yes i have brothers too [big sigh]. haha well ive never had this paticular problem but you can put a little sign above the toliet (if possible) or on the seat that says "HAVE SOME RESPECT AND CLEAN THE SEAT AFTER YOU'RE DONE" or you can come up with something funny so they'll remember. you can always tell them it bugs you and be serious because it is annoying! id be grossed out too! good luck with those guys... hope they learn! power to the good aimers in the house ;) haha just kidding -ask_anything

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