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i have a 4 year old brother. im scared of being a bad sister and scarring his views of me for life, but sometimes he is so annoying that i feel like really hurting him. when i explain he's being annoying he does the same thing any 4 year old boy would do... do it again.
it scares me and it makes me feel bad because i know he has no idea what hes doing wrong.
instead of hitting him what can i do to make him stop being annoying? (link)
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First off you have to understand that you can't actually stop a kid from being a kid. So much of being pesty is just human nature...he'll grow out of it.
BUT...it sounds to me like he's craving attention. Being annoying is the only way he knows to get you to notice him. If you rrally wanna calm him down, spend time with him. He wants to know he's more than your annoying little brother. He wants to be your friend.
Take some time out of your day to do something you can both enjoy. You might end up liking it, and you'll realize he start respecting you more. And the more time you spend together, the closer you'll get, and then you can Talk nicely with him about how he could still be playful without getting on your nerves.
Trust me it'll make things so much better. Kids understand friendship, so be his friend, and he'll treat you with the same respect.
I've got four siblings and we're all like best friends, but we also know how to respect each others space. That came from spending time with each other and becoming more than family.
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