~*~ Lotta bout me ~*~ I can answer questions on love life, family life, music, and so many other thing. Please ask me. I have a BF so I can help there. I have a few family probs that I have worked through so I can help you. Ask Alyssa!! ~*~ Mwa :-*
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Ok heres the story,Christmas day is when everything started...my whole family cept for me started fighting, my brother and his friend was over here and my mom started in on my brother and my brother ended up cutting his wrist, blood was running down his arm, i also cut myself that day because i was upset with everything thats been happeneing lately, when i cut my arm i blacked out, and well the story goes on, yesterday and today my parents have been fighting and i mean seriously fighting, my brother and his friend left yesterday and got one of their friends to come and pick them up and after they left my parents started fighting and have been fighting all day today and i cant take it no more, they were fighting so bad my mom was hitting my dad they spit on eachother, one of em pushed the other into the christmas tree and it broke at the bottom and everything on it droped on the floor and broked as well, and they wont stop fighting, i tell them to stop and they wont...they wont listen to me, i told them maybe they do need to get a divorce if they're gonna fight this much because there aint no sence in em being together if they are gonna fight 24/7 and i dont know what to do i cant take it anymore, i wanna get out of here but i have no where to go, no one wants me, and i have no one to talk to about any of i because i have no friends and i dont know what to do...the thoughts of my running away crossed my mind but i wouldnt have anywhere to go and its to cold outside to run away...so if anyone has any advice to give me please do...i need all the advice i can get, sorry this is so long, Thanks to who ever takes the time to read this and send me their thoughts. (link)
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OK, I don't know how much this will help you, but if you can get the phone and a phone book. Try calling a relationship counsler for your mom and dad. I know this may be drastic but if the fighting goes on too much longer, I'd suggest calling the police and getting them to come over and get them to quit or even if you have a grandparent or an aunt or a family member. Call them and ask them to come get you. I have been in this situation. My brother and myself went to my grandma's house for at least 1/2 of the summer and when we went back they had sorted things out. If need be see if you can move in with an Aunt/Uncle/Grandparent so you can get out of that house b/c it sounds like you need to. ~*~ Lots of Luv~*~ Alyssa
P.S Good Luck and PLease please please tell me if I helped you. I hope I did.
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my brother and i used to be extrmely close even though he is 14 yrs older than me. but after he found "the love of his life" he seems lik he doesnt even no who i am. when he got engaged i cried and when he was married i wanted to die. we can never seem to talk about anything and hes always saying how stupid i am for going out w/ my bf bc he doesnt live by me. hes wife is super awasome and i love her and all but sometimes its lik its her fault. everytime someone talks bout my brother i get rele upset and when they compare us i always say since you think hes so much better than me go get him to do it. i hate it bc everyone asks why ben (my brother) and i dont spend that much time together anymore. and hes having a child and im afraid hes going to rele forget about me. he relationship w/ everyone else hasnt changed only w/ me. when i was little and i cried when i had a nightmare hed come in my room and sit w/ me till i went to bed but when i my first bf broke up w/ me he told me to shut up and get over it. and it rele hurt bc i used to be able to turn to him when i was sad but now i cant. i rele dont no what im asking but do you think r realtionship will ever be the same? or how can i tell him how i feel? thanks and sry bout the length (link)
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Well, Becca, I can't help you with that. I ahve a brother but he is only 5 and I am 13. i am the oldest. Well, sweetie, all I can say is since his child is your neice/nephew, then you should see about you, him, his wife and his kid to do something. I don't know if things will be exactly the same, but all you can do is try. I hope i helped. Best of Luck ~*~ Alyssa ~*~
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