OK.. Im 23 I am a mother and business woman in the media sector.
Iv been through a hell of a lot and friends always come to me for advice and say I should give others advice ..so here I am.
Here to talk to for support.. Lets face it a stranger is always better to speak to than someone you know.
Gender: Female
Location: London
Occupation: Mother and Media Agent Consultant
Age: 23
Member Since: June 11, 2013
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I am 20 years old with a son that will be 3 in July and a daughter turning 2 in September. I recently found out I am 24 weeks pregnant with a baby girl. I had talked to a family friend about adopting my child, but soon changed my mind. I didn't want my daughter to be with total strangers never knowing if I could see her again. My aunt and uncle that live 2 hours away from me said they would like to adopt her. I just don't know how I feel about it. I really Want to keep her. But I just now got back into college and have no money. I think its just me being selfish because her life wouldn't be what she deserves. I am gettting my tubes tied and realize this will be my last baby. Should I tough it out and keep her? Or should I send her to a trusted family member?
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I honestly think this has to be your own decision.. Money does not bring happiness to a child its about the love you give them and im very sure you give this.
I personally would pull through it.. Dont under estimate your ability of motherhood. :)
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I have never wanted children. My entire life I have never felt that urge to mother, but I've recently found myself thinking about it more often. My boyfriend does want children, and its something we have talked pretty seriously about. Just trying to see it from each others point of views.
I don't know if I want kids now because my boyfriend does, or if its something else. I'm 22 and I just recently got promoted at my job, and my boyfriend is 28 and just enrolled in his doctorate programs, on top of having a full time job. It just wouldn't be a smart thing to do right now. Idk what I'm asking, I guess its more of an "is it normal to all the sudden have these feelings?" Kind of question...please help (link)
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Hi ya,
Your headline has said in big letters NO dont have a baby yet. When you question whether to have a baby or not you know you shouldnt yet!
Im 23 I have 3 children and a stepdaughter.
Its hard work.. Your a year younger than me and you have so much time to think about having a baby.
It sounds like you two have everything going for you in this relationship right now and Il be honest a baby ,the pregnancy etc does put strain on a relationship as its a big life change.
Its definitely OK for you to get these maternal extincts and in fact its great that you feel this. Youl be a great mummy one day. :)
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