HI!! Im a 27 yr old single mom that actually loves to give advice. Im very honest and will be blunt, however I will not hurt anyones feelings. I believe people need to be told the truth about things in order to be successful in life, as suppose to the cliche "I will tell you what you want to hear". I actually had a strong desire to become a therapist to work with mentally ill and/or depressed patients, but never finished college due to my pregnancy. I recently broke my foot so I now have alot of time on my hands.
So if you need a honest answer or simply someone to talk to IM HERE!!!!!! XOXO
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i'm not together with with the father of my children and i don't let him near them. he is a very bad person; he dose drugs all the time, gets drunk, gets in fights, hurts his family, smokes, and doesn't have a job or an education. he loves me and our kids but he is easily made angry and he used to take his anger out on us; yell at me a lot, has hurt a few times, cussed and said very inappropriate things in front of our kids. so i don't want him putting the kids though that anymore. dose keeping my kids away from there father make me a bad parent? (link)
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NOOOOOOOOOOOO you are not a bad parent. You are doing wants good for your children. So many abused mothers even fathers stay with the abusive spouse cause of the guilt of being a bad parent. I know Im not anybody to you but i cant express enough you are doing the right thing for your children for them to have a healthy life that they deserve. Kids don't understand right now but they will as adults. Stay strong for your children it will pay off in the future. Best of Luck to you.
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i get very angry when my 2 kids fights and when i dont get what i want i always hit my kids why?
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You have to find help seriously. the reasons why you hit your kids has to do something with yourself, not your kids driving you there. As a mother and adult your kids look torwards for comfort and support, so you have to help yourself asap. The good thing is that you recognize you have a problem you dont want to be the reason your kids grow up fucked up. So please find help. In the meantime when you have the urge to hit, hide. go to the bathroom close your eyes and clam down. Good Luck and please love your kids dont hit them.
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My son is three years old, and he is very interested in going to the "potty" he has been ready for this every since he was 18 months old, but he is our first child and neither me or my husband has even changed a diaper before him let alone potty train. We have asked many other parents what to do or if they had any tips, and most of them say "oh, just go with the flow." or "He will go on his own when he is ready." and "I dont know you just do it." Amazing even my mother cant explain to me how to potty train a child and she has done it 6 times. My husband and I are completely clueless. We feel like we are failing at this becuase we have no idea how to do this and he wants it really bad. So my question is, How do you potty train a child? Are there any tips to make it easier for him? Please help And thank you in Advance (link)
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Hey don't be so hard on yourselves. Your doing a great job by just asking and acknowledging your son's urges. Ok, so everyone has different techniques, if your home most of the time just leave him in he's underwear not a diaper. the purpose is so he can feel the wetness if he does go himself. Take him every hour to the potty, or when you have to go yourself so he can see how the whole potty thing works. You can even have him in a routine potty session. right after breakfast, a bottle of milk, snack, lunch, ect, take him to the potty. When he goes make a huge deal,alot of hoorays, clapping, smiles, hugs etc. Kids love that it gives them the sense of achievement and will mostly likely do it again successfully.
Im a single mom I didn't read the books or anything I kinda thing my own thing and it worked with patience f course. some people may say go with the flow but toddlers dont know when they have the urge really cause they go in a diaper at any given moment. So try it for at least a weekend only diaper at bedtime. it will get messy but if he's curious all ready then he's ready (if that makes sense). Good Luck
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