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Hey brittany bloggers here! I'm a part-time writer but a full-time listener! I'm 14 years old and that might sound too young to give advice but ive been through alot and I really hope you will give me a chance to help you. Im new to this site so if u ever want to talk i am here. Thanks for listening to me, now its your turn.

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after having sex, the next day if your stomach hurts and you feel fatter and bloated what does that mean? because i have been feel this way for about 5 days. i dont remember anything when i was having sex because i was drunk and someone took advatage over me. and it was my first time. im really scared about this.

Your proably very sore, for the first time you usakky aren't expecting sex to be like this. Your body is recovering from it. Give it about another week and if it's not going away you might want to get tested for any stds if you werent protected.
Hope everything works out for the best!
Sincerly,
Brittanybloggers

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well im 18 female. and i had unprotected sex a month ago with my bf and a week later i ended up with a sore throat the was hurting soo bad that i finally went to the doctor for them to look at it.. the doctor thought it was strept throat butt they took a swab of it and it wasnt strept troat. it was either mono or gonoreaha. but they culdnt tell me for sure. so they gave me a shot and 4 pills to take and so after 4 days it went a away.. but a couple of days later i started to get my period but it was 4 days late.. and i took a pregnany test it came out clearly negative.. but after that i started feeling nausas and sick and i got heartburn and i had loss of appeitie cause i couldnt eat and i lost weight.. i went to the doctor and got tested for hiv an stds. they all came back negative. but after that i still felt symptoms of pregnacy..im feeling more tired then usual and my body kinda aches and i just dont wanna move at all. and my head hurts so bad sometimes. so since it has been a month now and i feeling all theses symptoms. could i be pregnant? cause im not getting any better

Dont freak out yet! There are still other things it could be, if your losing weight i doubt your prego but just to be sure wait it out a little and see if your taking any shape to pregnancy. If you notice any change you might want to get tested for pregnancy and hopefully they will be able to tell you if your expecting.
Hope eveything works out for the best!
Sincerly,
Brittanybloggers

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my mom has a boyfriend and he is stealing her away from me.wat do i do? by the way im a girl and im 13





signed confused daughter

My stepfather did the same thing when i was your age. You have to let her that you are here and that your not going to go un-noticed. You will come before any boyfriend of hers, and if he's the one stealing her away then i would suggest talking to him and explaining that you know whats best for you mom more than anyone does, and if he wants to remain her life then he needs to be in yours as well. And if that dosen't get his attention then you talk to your mother about it. Tell her that if this relationship gets serious that you are going to be a part of it!
Hope everything works out for the best!
Sincerly,
Brittanybloggers

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Ok,
So hi its sayah again,
uhm, so i am not pregnant
but i kinda want a baby now.
I am sad and disapointed
evern though im only 14
but still, i was thinking
and should i try and prego again ?

That is a very big decison to make alone. I agree that a baby is a great part of you in life but its alot to take on. You would have to get a job and raise this baby. Does the father know? It's very important to include him not only because this baby would be raised not knowing who it is but also because it would help you out major. Your only 14 and thats not even old enough to have a job and if you have a baby your going to need the money. I would ask myself if i wanted a baby or if i wanted to live my childhood until i was sure of this answer. You would be responsible for a whole other life! Are you sure your ready to be a parent?

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