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I do make alot of misteaks so i like getting advice.But i also like to give it out to ppl who need it the most.I do deal with alot of thing bc im a tomboy an everyone makes fun of me.My parents like to fight and my sis thought of suicide anyways i've gone through a lot.So if you need any advice just let me know.I love getting to know people more b4 givng advice b/c i learn more about them.Thats how i give my best advice. But feel free to i.m. me or mail me. :)

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13/f. Im not sure how I like my friend. As in bff or bf. Weve been really close friends for a long time then he started saying bffs so I did to because I tell him more than my other bffs and he tells me a lot and were always there for each other. But then we flirt so much people think or say were dating or should but were not. He knows I liked him I know he liked me but I have no idea now. I went to a paintball party last night. We both go paint balling a lot then at the party my team was my 5 bffs 3 of their bfs and my ?bff?. I would mainly go with him. And we flirt so much that’s what im so confused about. He was showing off and showing me off and when we separated he was looking for me and worried? But im the kind of gothic violent rough girl and hes the kind of prepy nice guy. Other guys I used to like and they liked me would be rough im rough to everyone also. But hes to nice. Is that what it should be like. But now hes been wearin a lot of black and acting depressed. Does that mean something. But then we do joke or do shoot each other on purpose. And my other bff and her bf broke up that night so I went with her. So he knew so he went to get him. Then we went around me my bff(my ?bff or bf?) and my other bff (she just broke up). And he was talking to her about something ‘top secret’. later on she(bff he was talking to) started truth or dare. And it started out just my 5 bffs and him(bff) and another guy. I kept doing truths I was just to nervous. I knew it was a setup. He asked truth to me if id ever take a dare. Then my bff asked truth to me if I liked him then truth to him if he liked me we both said no. I regret it. Everyone already knew anyway but im just not sure if I like him bf or bff? And ive never kissed or been kissed. That’s what it was supposed to be. I thought wed start taking it longer than just a ‘dare’ kiss like making out or something. I like him as a bf then bff then bf then bff I just am not sure whats wrong. Hes all I think about and write about.
i really need help soon. im gona see him again tomarrow in one class only. it will be so okward. if i dont do it tomarrow it will probly never happen between us. we tell eachother alot of stuff and we both knew or thought before the party that we liked eachother. and can you answer all my questions. please!!!!.
Do I like him as a boyfriend(bf) or best friend(bff). How does he like me?
What should I do? What should he do?
How do you kiss? Ive never had a bf! But I turn down a lot of guys.
how would i tell my mom?
How do I change what happened?
What else should I do?

well first off im so sorry i didnt answer this soon enough.but my advice is that u like him as a boy friend because if your always thinking about him then thats a good sign that u may have a crush.Im not to sure if he likes you alot or not.It depends on if he always touches you like just messing around.I think you should just msg him like a text or email so it wont feel to weird if he says he dont like you.i cant really explain how to kisss because it just happens.But if you need more help just send me another msg.

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well, i didnt kno what category to use. so yeaa. anyways... this is going to be long and confusing...

so my life is basically retarded right now. i dont have many friends. i mean i do, but none of them are really close, cos people tend to cause drama and screw me over, and i got sick of it, so i pretty much pushed everyone away. when i first meet people, im really shy and i usually dont talk much. i also suck at opening up, even though i want to, i just kinda.. cant. i have one really close friend, and shes not even that close. her mom is really strict and i only see her at school usually. outside of school, i never have anyone to hang out with accept my older friends, but sometimes i feel like im a pain in the butt to them. cos i cant drive and i always need a ride, and i barely talk to them. we dont know much about each other, we just hang out. its weird. i love being out with them though, everything feels better. i hate being at home. my parents always give me shit. they expect me to get straight a's or a+'s, and they give me so much responsibility. then, it soccer, they expect me to be a star player. but i cant, im not that great. they always yell at me when i dont live up to their expectations. they dont know anything about my life either. one time, my dad was asking me about drinking. i told him i dont do it and that i would never do it. he told me i wasnt fun, which was weird. truth is, ive been drinking since i was 12, and ive smoked, both cigs and weed. it makes me feel kinda guilty when they compare me to my sister and say how shes so bad, yet im so good and obediant and stuff. with guys, its been shit. ive had two boyfriends, neither of which lasted very long. im more of a tomboy, and im the youngest of all my friends that i hang out with outside of school, who are all boys, pretty much. theyre all either seniors or older, except for 2 or 3 of them, and im a freshman. there was also this guy that ive liked since i started talking to him in the beginning of the year. he kissed me, but told me it was just spur of the moment. then we didnt talk for a while. after about two or three months of little contact, hung out again and he kissed me and.. we had sex. it was a mistake, but i dont regret things.. so i guess its not really a regret. now we stopped talking so much again. i also like one of my senior friends, but hes.. well, i dont know whats up with him. hes a real gentleman, so hes never really like "dayumn, shes hot" i only heard him talk like that once, and it was just me, him, and two other guys, and they were saying they would fuck one of the teachers at our school for an a. he was just like, "oh yea, me too" but kinda in a quiet "not really" way. theres one other friend i have, and hes.. well, i feel kinda close with him. like, i feel like almost like siblings, or maybe just like best friends. but yea, i dont want to get attached to him because hes so bad. he goes to juvi school and is in gangs and stuff. well anyways. in school i always use to get good grades and never get in trouble. this year, my grades have dropped a little, and i have already gotten 3 referrals. ive been ditching and stuff too, which i know i shouldnt but.. i did. i want to go somewhere far away but i cant. my parents are giving me so much responsibility, they want me to like, save all third world countries. seriously. i dont. i want travel. my parents dont know any of my friends. not my guy frinds anyways. she thinks im always hanging out with my "nerdy friend" amanda, but im always with my guys.

sorry, this jumped all over the place. anyways, i just wanted to know your perspectives on my life and what i should do and stuff. i know i do bad things and hang out with bad people, but i dont want to stop hanging out with them. them make me happy. so i just want to hear what you guys think of this and stuff...

Ok this is weird alot of the things you said about your self an parents is the same with me.Im a tomboy i drink,smoke weed an cig.But all i gotta say is do what you want make your own decisions in your life because your not getting any younger.If your having fun with the things your doing then keep doing it.Just try to finish school an not skip as much.But if you like a guy who is a bad influence try getting to know him he might change his attitude for the girl he loves an you could be the one.Hope I helped!!

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I am really bored.People tell me to get a life.How do I do that.Please tell me how I should get a life,get rid of my boredom,meet new people and make new friends. Any answers are appreciated

Im always bored.So i always try to go to the movies or just walk around with friends.But i love getting high because it just helps you have fun.Not because it makes you cool or you feel cool.If your stressed out it helps you forget about it an just have fun.Im not saying to go an get high because i dont wanna get people to go do drugs.But if you just wanna be you an not to drugs or anything,go bowling,movies an just always try an make plans with friends.It also doesnt madder if you have alot of friends because you can always try going to a cousins house.I hope i helped if you need anymore suggestions just let me know.Let me know what kind of person you are like if you like doing drugs or getting drunk or just a type of person who likes to have fun.I just want to know more about you so i can give you better advice.

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So I was checking out questions recently. And there was an answer to one about an online diary. and the website was like... www.diary(something).com and i cant remember what it was. Does anyone know? Thanks In Advance!

diaryland.com

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i want to buy this kid nick a present. the thing is that i don't know what 14 year old guys like. i ccan't buy him something to expensive like a game boy advance (or whatever) so i need some advice on what i could possible get him..
thanxx

Get him a gift certificate at best buy

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I can't find any online reviews for this product so I decided to ask here. "Auto Cool" a device that you put on your car window and a solar powered fan pulls the hot air out. I am wondering if this really works? I mean if the air in the car is really that hot, and it's hot outside how is this going to work?

https://www.autocooltv.com/ppc/index.asp?id=&refcode=ppcG

I will rate

well my cousin had one they dont really work . They cool it off by 5 degrees.But it also made water leak into the car.

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