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i need some funny dares for my friend, hes a guy so nothing like go into the boys bathroom or somthing haha. any ideas. thanx so much!!
13/f
any funny dares uve done/heard of work! i just need a little inspiration
haha okay well it depends on where you are doing this, but ill give you some ideas and you can go along with it.
me and my friedns used to dare each other to go someones house in the neighborhood(no one you know) and knock on their door and when they open, ask to talk to their dog. and if they dont have a dog, you say im sorry for your loss and run away. corny i know, but its really embarrassing :D
another one is to dare him (depends if your at school or at your house) to go into your bathroom or the girls bathroom and put saran wrap under the toilet seat so when a girl sits down the pee drips all over their pants.
well this isnt really a dare, but more of a prank. dare him to go up to someone with a funnel, a penny, and a bottle of water. then he shows them what he wants them to do, by placing the funnel in his pants in the front, and put a penny on his nose, and he has to tell them that they have to try to get the penny into the funnel. now they will try and when they put up their heads with the penny on their nose, he pours the bottle of water down the funnel and it looks like they wet their pants. its reallllyyy funny. or you can just do it to him saying i dare you to get the penny in the funnel :D
dare him to dress up as a girl, and wear makeup and everything, and tell him to go somewhere to get you something. and even funnier, make him walk to a corner store to buy tampons and random girl stuff.
haha thats all i can think of, but have funn :D
what was that song on the hills, when they were with the rock group, drinking, before the photo shoot. if it helps, it went like "......queen eliza bith...." "cuz im a rockstar"
its rock star by prima j. i loveee that song! hope that helps :]
Why is it whan i take a picture it looks really bad but when i lok at myself in the mirrori see myself as somewhat pretty???????
it's probably just your camera! i advise that you just ask one of your friends to borrow their camera or have them take a good picture of you. :]
I just saw this movie now. The original one, from 1970 something. I know this isn't asking for "advice", but I really want to know..
What happened at the very end after the priests died? Were the mom & daughter moving out because of the weird stuff? or were they going to live with the father in Europe?
Anyone's opinions are appreciated. :]
& thank you in advance.
ahh thats one of my favorite movies. well obviously the priest got the demon in him and jumped out the window, so the demon would die and not be able to effect the girl again. the mom and daughter moved out because they feared where they lived and they didnt want anything like that happening again. and im not sure if they went to europe. the second movie might answer that one. :]
17/f
okay i have a problem talking to adults. i'm fine talking with my friends or with my parents but for some reason whenever i talk to other adults i choke. like i studder and can't think of the words to say. it's very frustrating because i don't want them to think i'm dumb i just get nervous talking to them. but i'm not nervous of them or scared of them or anything like that it's just talking to them. please help!!!
let's see, i think the solution to your problem is to just stand there. dont start a conversation or anything until they ask you questions, you know? just make your talk short and sweet, avoiding the studder. if you get frustrated and it shows, just be like sorry, im a little shy and this talking to people gets me kind of nervous, dont be afraid to tell them because that can start a conversation, older adults are more understanding then you think. hope that helps you :]
Okay, this is VERY long, and I'm sorry. But I really need some advice, and maybe just some way to have people listen to me.
I'm 16 and live in Canada
When I was about 8, My parents divorced, which ment i would have to move from a small town into a large city. on top of that, my best, and only friend "H" Moved from there to another province very far away. I was really messed up. by age ten i was cutting, but i was always a smart kid, so i did it on placed nobody would see. I never saw "H" for 8 years, but We kept in contact, MSn, Phone, all that sort of stuff. and I missed out on So much. her sweet 16. all her hard breakups. we never had nights of crashing on each others couchs, throwing food into each others mouths. and I always felt like "I should be there, this is'nt fair!" But our friendship Did grow, because of it's trials, and eventually I stopped cutting. Now, I'm sixteen. I serve as the "advice man" for my group of friends. So to me, That means i'm not allowed to cry, or want to be held or loved, I just need to give to them,and help them. because if I'm weak. Then they can't depend on me anymore, I'm not strong enough, and they need me to be there. Cause alot of them have some REAL issues. But that means when I need help, or need to cry. I have noone, and i feel weak doing it. like i failed them all. Last fall, i tried to kill Myself. Over dosed on Pain Killers. one of my friends came to the hospital, left saying "i'm hungry, don't wanna stay here" and another(the only one who came and stayed) talked about her weekend and how her neck hurt, without really seeming to notice that i had just tried to end my life. she said she knew i was'nt oaky that day.. adn i wondered 'well, if you knew everything was'nt okay, why did you leave me alone?"
One of my friends has a drug problem and severe depression.she calls me her guardian angel because of all i do for her. yet often, when I try to help, she just goes back into it, because she wanted to try a new drug. as if nothing i did for her had mattered.
As a birthday gift, my dad bought my tickets to go see "H" and i spent a week there. i had a great time. but H has had a rough life. after she moved, she developed a strong distaste for human physical contact. while I, growing up afraid of losing the things I cared for, grew to show my care for them through alot of physical contact. so while i was there, I made her a bit uncomfortable(unintentionally), and i'm really afraid I hurt her enough that she does'nt want me to come again. I wish I could let her know I never did anything trying to her her, Only trying to show that she means the entire world to me, and I would have never lasted this long without her, but she's withdrawn and i'm afraid our friendship is ruined. I feel worthless, because I'm so used to having her there, and knowing what goodbye means this time, That I am going through heck. I'm afraid i'll never see her again. and I miss her so much, cause she's gotton me through the worst times in my life, and I love her. I woke up to her watching me sleep this morning, and tonightr i sleep thousands of miles away from her
I have feelings for "h" beyond friendship, but she has a BF, and I know it would be wrong to act on them. but It hurts alot because i have them and wish i could just show her and she'd feel the same. and I know thats wrong, and i feel it's betraying our 10 year long friendship.
I'm the oldest of four boys, so alot of the pressure is put on me.i'm the "good one" the one that'll go to university, all that stuff. and I really dunno if I can do it.
and worst of all. I feel I'm in the wrong Body. that I should be a woman. and I don't ruhs into this, I've spend the last coupel years learning about this since i realized what i had been feeling happens to others, and there was even treatment. but i'm afraid of my parents reaction, if "H" could ever care for me as a woman, if i'm wrong, I transition, and then I realize it. and worse, I know the only thing keeping me Back is me, because, without that fear, I might have already done it. I'm my own worst enemy. mayeb that just i really care about this, because if i did'nt i would'nt be afraid
To sum up what I need advice on:
What do i do to ease this pain of leaving "H"(i've been crying all day), not feel so bad about betraying her friendship(deal with loving her, without it hurting, knowing i'll never be with her)
How can I learn to help my friends, but also let myself need their help sometimes?
How can I talk to my parents about how i'm going to transition, even if they don't like it?
And generally, I think i just need some cheering up, and some way to feel like i'm cared for, and that who i am matters, that people still care about me and I am loved as well?
Please Help me, I'm at my wits end, and I don't know what to do.
Solemnstar
ok wow. this was really interesting to read. i mean i thought i had some things bad, but you never really realize what some people go through. ok well im here to help you. ok about "H", she sounds like a great person, and its hard that you love her so much, but she lives so far away and doesnt even know. first off, i think you should eventually tell "h" soon that you really care about her more than a friend. tell her you know she has a boyfriend, but that doesnt stop your feelings, neither does the miles that seperate you. honestly? i think you know that you and "h" can never be, and thats why your crying. but that cant stop you from living your life. i know love is hard and everything, but you have to be real. it sounds like you could have a great life ahead of you, but your letting her stop you from achieving happiness. you need to be more open with other girls and guys too make new friends. there are other girls or guys out there. you'll eventually get over "h" no matter how much pain youll go through. cutting is not the answer. so you should stop that now, it makes it even worse. it sounds like your a great friend and you help all of them, but you need to learn to let your feelings out to your friends, not to random people on advicenators, even though it does help. you need to tell them the things your telling everyone on here. they can help you through things in person, not over a computer. and about the transition, you should come clean with your parents. dont come out and ask for it, simply talk to them about your feelings, and ease up to maybe considering it. if they cant deal with it, find a family member that can help. one thing you cant do: do nottt yell at your parents, no matter what they say about it, it only makes everything worse. dont let this make things hard between you and your parents, because they love you with all of their hearts, but they probably wont expect this coming from you. i really hope i help, and i know things will be better for you because you sound like a really caring and thoughtful person with a bright future ahead of you. :]
So I inherited the lovely gene of oily skin from my dad and with it being summer its gotten even worse. There hasn't been a morning where there isn't a swimming pool of oil on my face. I read in Allure magazine that there are lotions and such you can put on your face to prevent lots of oil coming out of your skin. I don't recall it giving any product names so I was hoping you guys can recommend some good anti-oil face washes and/or cremes that work well for really oily skin.
Thanks!
ahh i dont know of any washes or creams. but i use these oil absorbing sheets by clean and clear, you just use them on your face every morning while your getting ready, and it turns like a different color showing its taking the oil off your skin. hope that helps your problem? :]