hey there world!
so i was talking to my friend tonight and she told me that i give pretty good advice and that what i told her really helped her..which sparked the idea for me to make this lovely advice column..i'm here for anyone if you need me and i'll answer whatever questions you have (even if they dont fall under my "favorite catergories" or whatever..haha)....but basically, here is a quote to sum it all up (at least in my eyes)...i really love this quote!
"I say if you feel good with what you're doing, let your freak flag fly"
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okay, there's this guy and i really like him and a lot of people think that he likes me because he always hugs me and puts hisarms around me (in a nonpossessive way) and always comforts me when i'm down. but anyways. i don't have any classes with him and i have lunches with him everday but we don't sit at the same table or communicate that much. i mean like every other day he walks to class with me since my class is on the way to his. but anyways, he doesn't get on AIM alot so he basically never talks on there. winter break is starting soon and i can't imagine not talking to him for over 3 weeks! should i ask him for his phone number or something like that? and what are some things that i can do with him over winter break? like what can i do to hang out with him? i don't want to it be too forward or awkward so yeah. (link)
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i definatly think asking for his number is good thing to do..because 3ish weeks is a long time to go without talking to him and you could definatly build on your friendship/relationship if you were to hang out over break..my advice would be to go to him before break starts (in school) and ask him what he's doing over break and if he'd wanna hang out with you..if there is something going on in ur area..like a holiday tradition or something you could always ask him to tag along with you..some ideas for things to do would be to..go sledding (if there is snow), go to a movie (but i wouldnt start off with that because movies dont provide much room for talking..unless you hang out before or after), concerts are always fun, i personally love the coffee house setting.if you drink coffee (or he does, you can get other things besides coffee at coffee shops) a lot of the times cool local artists perform at coffee houses and there is still room for talking while they are performing and the ambience is really nice...but there may not be any coffee houses like that around, just keep your eyes open though for the future, and things wont be awkrawd if you tell yourself they wont be...i think that awkrawdness is a state of mind, you only think something is awkward becasue you think that is what the other person is thinking,, ya no? so just go into it thinking that it'll be great and you'll give him no indications that its wierd and so it wont have a chance to be..i'll try to think of other things that you could do (some creative things perhaps?) and let you know...otherwise, let me know how things go and just know i'm always here for you
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