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Age: 16
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im geting a camera. i need some help picking one out. i heard the canon is pretty good. any other suggestions? + links. thanks. (link)
when i got my camera, i shopped around A LOT. because i really like photography. if you're just getting a camera for like vacations and a night with friens, canon powershot is really good for the price. Sony cybershot is also really good but kind of fragile. Kodak easyshare is good if you can keep your hand steady.


(15/f)

I am redecorating my room for my 16th but im unsure of what i want. I want my room to be everything about me. Pictures everywhere, posters everywhere, inspirational things on the wall, scrapbooks on display, things like that. My room is small but i could fit everything in. The walls are white, and im going to leave it like that. Does everyone have any other ideas that i could add in my room to make it unique and different? Thanks! (link)
Oh man I'm sixteen and i ALWAYS love to do stuff to my room. I'm kind of an interior designer. Anyway, I just had this idea. Get a bunch of cardboard (from boxes, anything!) and write block (swirly, stylish whatever) letter of inspirational words (hope, dream, inspire, create, believe, love, etc.) and color them with permanent marker (bright colors to POP on your white wall) and hang/stick them on different parts of your walls. Then all those inspirational pictures/posters/pictures and things, CLASSIFY them! Like say you have a picture of a ballerina cause you like to dance, you can put that under a DANCE or DREAM. Put your stuff around the words so that it looks organized but totally about you!


I am turning 16 in 2 months, and i still haven't decided what i am going to do!
Here are my concerns:

1) I don't want to have a huge party at a party hall or anything, because it is too much work for everyone, too many people i can't leave out, and most importantly, too much money.
2) I can't have a party in my house because it is way too small.
3)If i have it at a restaurant, it will be too expensive, and EVERYONE has their parties there.

I am inviting around 30-35 people. Ive tried to go lower then that but i cant leave out certain people. I am willing to spend some money, not over the top though. I dont know what to do, can somebody PLEASE help me. Tell me about what YOU did for your sweet sixteens! :) (link)
Well for my sweet sixteen i rented a yacht for a night (400 bucks) and it was smallish so i only invited 40 people. Which was perfect for me. But i'm sure it's out of your budgest because the total was like...800 dollars. I think you could have a themed party to distract people from where it is. Like masquerade or murder mystery. If it's murder mystery, it'd have to be in your house. You could have it at a public park that is really big. That way, you can decorate it anyway you want (they have pavillions you can rent at most parks) and people can roam wherever they want. It's really low cost. Have it at night, bring tiki torches and decorate it! (other themes: hawaiian, celebrities (make your friends dress up, walk on a red carpet you can buy into the pavillion) fuuuun


today i went to get my hair cut.
i had side bangs.
and i told the women to TRIM them.
butt she ended up cutting me bangs straight across my forhead above my eyebrows.
i was crying for about twoo hours because i couldnt beleive it.

so heres my question :
how long does it take horse shampoo [main n' tails) to make your hair grow about an inch?

please&&thankyou. (link)
well i don't use horse shampoo, but i use regular shampoo...the kind that doesn't have any special growing thing. i cut my bangs (side) too short JUST last monday. I clipped them up that day and the day after but by wednesday they were long enough to be to my liking! (which was like 1/2 an inch) so i'm guessing you wait 4 to 5 days :)


Let's just say that my ex-girlfriend has done plenty of evil things to me, including messing with my current love life, and attempting to get me banned from places for "stalking" even though they were my hangouts before I met her, and such.
And at the moment, an opportunity to get back at her without consequence has arisen. Keep in mind, it's nothing illegal or life-threatening, more like a really really elaborate prank.
Some of my friends think I'm within my rights to play said prank, while others think that I should just not do it.
The problem is, I don't think the woman is going to back the hell off me unless I do something.
So, should I do the deed, or just try and tolerate the bulls**t? (link)
Well clearly she isn't over you (i'm guessing YOU ended it?) I think playing a prank on her will just hurt her more (even if she is psycho) and won't solve anything, but just give you the satisfaction. Talk to her. Don't start out with "i can see you're still hung up on me" Just say something like you don't appreciate her messing up your life just because she wants to get back at you because she's just stooping lower than you. Tell her you didn't mean to hurt her or treat her liked a tissue (use once and throw away) or whatever she feels you did. But also make it clear you don't mean to sever all ties. You can still talk and such. Maybe she'd like that. I dunno.


okayy. so at lunch i was walking past the table of popular guys and some of them im KINDA freindly with and there like ohh max likes you and come and talk to him and i just kinda blow him off because there is no way that max likes me. i mean. hes not hott or anything but just were friends you know. so i walk to my table and what ever. and at gym "steve" who was there was like ohh max likes you and stuff and im like ohhh yeahh sure. and then i started bugging him about who he likes/liked. and then max comes over and is like ohh yeah dont believe them or anything. i was like i kno kno i believe you. and then he told me the reason they said that ( all the guys at the table) was that max was like to this kid kevin oh you like wendy (who like has friends and everything and isnt like a nerd but not like popular and not the PRETTIEST but yeah) and then so kevin was like oh you like (me) samantha. and then yeah. so like were they making fun of me? like i have friends okay. im not like friendless. and im friendly with some popular people you know. and like trust me im not UGLY. im actually sorta pretty. im not being like concited but i can be really pretty. =] haha. so yeah where they? i already told me friend (ryan whos like kinda popular) to go yall at keven =] ha. (link)
my answer to this is, they are NOT making fun of you. This happens at my school like all the time. It's kind of confusing to picture the whole situation from your play-by-play but i got the idea. They're just joking with you. They probably think you're cute and want to tease their friend, Max, so they set him up with you. he COULD like you but he didn't tell his friends that. just ignore it until Max starts acting suspicious.


How do you get to decorate your advice colum? (link)
you go to (in the miscellaneous section) page backgrounds and pick one with the directions given...and you also go to column settings and choose a theme that goes best with your background!

HOPE THAT HELPED!




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