Heya, I'm Ellie =]. Sure I'm your average Teenager! I believe in hard work, I believe in being optimistic and never giving up =]. I get pretty crazy sometimes, and I'm loud and not always Missus Perfect - but I'm outgoing and I generally stick to the rules... Unless I don't like them, In whcih Case, I may just invent my Own :)
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ok so heres the deal i am a big tomboy i love sports and video games and everything like that but my mom thinks that if i contenue to be a tomboy im going to be lesbian gosh i have had a crush on a few boys and i have never had a crush on a girl my whole intier life all it is, is i think that boys clothes are more confertable then girls clothes and i like sports so i always wear my hair back in a pony tail and i wear a hat all the time because me and my dad go golfing almost everyday ok thats all it is its not because i have crushes on girls or anything its just because its who i am thats it so what should i tell my mom the next time she gives me the i dont want you to date a girl talk. i am not intrarested in girls at all ok i do have a crush on a boy and i hate all the girls do you know why its because they all think im freaks and i have no one to talk to when that "speacil" guy comes around or if i have a problem or if i want somthing a boy cant help me with like when im having my period and my mom dosnt have any pads i cant go and ask a boy if they have any i want one friend thats a girl but i dont want a girlfriend but i dont realy want a boyfriend either but i do like them as friends and crushes but what do i tell my mom when she gives me that really stupid i dont want you to date a girl talk again i dont want to have to sit through that what do i tell her please help (link)
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First of all, I am not going against your mother at all - I must first say. But the thing is giving you a talk about ' I don not want you to date a girl' is truly harsh. Girls can like girls - many do, and its just a natural part of life, so nobody should feel ashamed of that, its just down to personal preference. Just tell her, nicely, calmly, if she does this again, that you feel offended when she says these things to you, as you don't want to change for her, as you are you, you have your own opinions, own style - and you don't want to be changed because you are happy with yourself. I think you should let her know that you are hurt and worried about what she thinks of you, and that - in fact - you like being you, the way you are :).
She'll understand, and I do think she is being unfair :)
Goodluck
XXx
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