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Hi everyone,
My name is Patty. Or atleast that what I being called. I'm 16 years old and have been in many teen websites and answer questions through the year. I'm pretty much an outgoing activist person. When I listen, I listen with my heart, mostly and sometimes with my head when it come to question I have to search for the answer. I usually give a straight, honest, answer to every questions. Feel free to contact me at daydreamz89@hotmail.com or pop by a question at my column. :)
Take care.
-Patty-
E-mail: daydreamz89@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Occupation: K-12 Student
Age: 16
MSN: daydreamz89@hotmail.com
Member Since: August 5, 2005
Answers: 27
Last Update: August 8, 2005
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dont you just HATE it when people rate you really low just bc you tell the truth?

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Hi there,
I kinda got your point. I answered from other websites, being teen counseling at other websites and it just wow...but I don't know i guess sometimes you have to live with it because some people want to hear the truth and some just prefer something nicer. Cause sometimes the truth hurts, you know.
Tell me how its going. Take care.
-Patty-


What do 16 year old guys think about? What do they do in there spare time? What do they talk about with there friends..there cars? sex? Thanks!! (link)
Hi there,
I still wonder about that too but from what I see around my friends. I believe girls, cars, video games, sex, it could also be "what's for dinner tonight?" Interesting huh,?


I had this horrible dream and cant get it out of my head. To make a long story short my 2 month old baby and I ended up in a truck stop when a nut came in with a big knife. He just started killing people left and right and when he came to me I said "please dont hurt the baby" he laughed at me and cut my throught. As Layed on the floor bleeding he cut the babys throught and the baby was crying and he laughed and said to the baby "ahh, are you crying, want me to get your bottle?"
It was so dramatic Ive been crying about it all day. I woke up with red marks all over my neck from grabbing my throught while I was dreaming. (link)
Hi there,
I believe you dream might try to tell you something. It might have been that you are stress about something or you worry about something that causes you to dream something like that. Try talk it out if you have problems. When we worry too much or stress about stuff sometimes it causes us to dream a bad dream. Just the way our head work.
Tell me how its going. Take care.
-Patty-


I have a bunch of pimples on my chin and under my lips. I really hate them bc even with the tons of makeup i sover them up with they still pop out all gross and red. I would really love something that could make these DISAPPEAR!!! (link)
Hi there,
Here are some tips about pimples you should know:
-Don't pick, scratch, pop or squeeze your pimples.When the pimples are squeezed, more redness, swelling, inflammation and scarring may result.
-Participate daily facial skin care routine:
cleansing, moisturizing (use that one that are water-based) If you have outbreaks of blackheads and pimples. Use oil-free moisturizer.
-facial scrub once a week will help prevent the clogging of the pores and remove dead skin.
-Choose the right skin product for your skin.
-Keep your hair away from your face.
-Remove make up before going to bed.
-Use clean towel and change your bed and pillow sheets frequently.
-Exercise regularly
-Drink alot of water, eat alot of veggie
-Stress is one reason that causes acne, pimples
-Use a good suntan
-Have plenty of Sleep

If those didn't work. Find out about products below.


---These are treatments to pimples---
(Be sure to consult to your physician)
Asterias Rub: Its a main remedy for face pimples at the start of puberty.

Thuja: Acne of the face, nose and nasal dermatitis (inflammation of the skin).

Agaricus: When there is also tendency to chilblains.

Aconitum Lycotonum: Hard pimples the face and lips.

Calc. Phos: Acne in anemic girls at puberty, with vertex headache relieved by eating.

Bovista: Acne due to the use of cosmetics, especially during summer.

Aurum Ars. : Pimples on the face and forehead.

Sanguinaria: Acne of the face get worst during periods.

Hepar Sulph. : Pimples which suppurate with white pus

+++By the way, if I was you I wouldn't use make up to cover up pimples, it will get even worse. Make up will clot the oil and irritates the skin which cause it to "pop out all gross and red"

Tell me how its going. Take care.
-Patty-


in the summer i get freckles all over my face. its really annoying my face is more pale then tan. i look bad without coverup.. i dont like coverup because its cakey sometimes and thick and expensive..and also melts off your face. are there any alternatives to get rid of or cover up freckles? (link)
Hi there,
Ok here's some fact about frackles:
Being outside in the sun may help cause freckles or make them darker. Some people's freckles fade away almost completely in the winter and return in the summer. Other people's freckles don't change much with or without the sun and can be seen year-round. Freckles also tend to fade as people get older. Always be sure to wear sunscreen and follow other sun-safety rules.

These are options that you could take to treat your freckles.
**Sunprotection
**Hydroquinone-a kind of skin lightening gel/cream that could decrease unwanted spots like, acne, or frackles (may cause irration)
** Kojic acid is a natural product derived from fungi. It is gentle on the skin and very effective in treating skin discoloration. Penetrating upper skin layers, it inhibits the formation of the pigment.
**Alpha hydroxy acids help to shed the old cells faster, therefore they will be helpful as well. By removing the outer skin cells, which are usually darker, you will make your freckles or age spots lighter and less visible.
Be sure to consult with your physician.
------Natural treatments-----

-Wash your face with sour milk. Lactic acid will provide gentle peeling effect without irritating or drying your skin.

-Lemon juice is a time-proven freckle fighting remedy. It is not necessary to rub your skin with a piece of lemon. Applying the juice with your fingers will do the job.

-Fruit and vegetable masks (apricots, strawberries, cucumbers, red currant).

-Sour cream mask. Do not rinse this mask completely, just remove gently with a facial tissue, then apply a moisturizer. For oily skin - use lemon juice before applying the mask.

-Natural parsley juice (or parsley infusion) mixed with equal amounts of lemon juice, orange juice, and red currant juice under your favorite cream will help you keep your freckles invisible.

-Increase your Vitamin C intake! It makes your skin less sensitive to the sun. Foods rich in vitamin C include citrus fruits, apples, green onions, black and red currant, rosehip tea.

Tell me how its going. Take care.
-Patty-


okay well ill be 16 in less than a month, and already my family and friends are asking what i want... i have no idea... so i need some help on what to get for a 16 year old girl... i really want a car... but i doubt my parents will do that, and i was thinkin a tiffanys neckalce and one of those sequin purses... but what else is there?!! please help!! (link)
Hi there,
Oh dear, headache huh? Well about a car you could give a hint to your parents, who know you might be the lucky winner. Tiffany necklace, bracelets and all the accessorites well tell your friend you want some thing to decorate your body on your birthday. That will give them a hint. Incase they won't be able to afford the tiffany. Also take one look around you (in your bed room) it will give you a hint of what your interest are, if you have loads of cds, well you might have to come up with a list of artists or bands. Look at the way you dress for example, who know you might be needed a new pair of jeans (just what I need, ha) Tell me how its going. Take care.
P.S. Happy (early) Birthday :)
-Patty-




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