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i've had this for a few years. on and off i'd get on and answer some questions, out of boredom. but that's all changed. i've been doing a lot of soul searching in the past couple of months. i'm no longer the bored 14 year old girl when i started using this, i'm now a 16 year old woman wanting to actually help. i've expierenced so many things now, and i feel like i can give advice for many different subjects, instead of just a few. i really want to help people, whenever, however, anytime of day, any way.


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Location: Clovis, California
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today my brother held my arm so tight i have a bruise, yesterday he hit me over the head with a phone, and the day before he repeaditly hit me with a key board. other times he punches and hits me, i tell my parents and they never do anything. yet when i do something to him i get in trouble immediatly. it isnt fair and it hurts me that he practically abuses me and that my parents dont care. what should i do?

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you need to sit down with them and firmly talk about it. thats not right what he does. i think they need to make stuff like the illegal.

if he doesnt stop. call the cops. seriously, that will solve it.

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when i was 12 istarted to cut my wrist anddont want to be putimamental institution can you tell me the dangersof wrist cutting

Answer

here are some dangers:

you could cut too deep, and slice into a vein. that would make a lot of blood come out and it could kill you.

you can get a disease from it if your not using something clean to cut yourself with.

it could get so bad one day that you can committe suicide.

i hope you're okay. and if you ever need to talk, instant message me on AIM or yahoo.

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when u slightly cut ur wrist does it bleed bad... just a small tiny slit...
thanks-
~worried~

Answer

um, ok well. if its a small tiny slit normally not a ton. depends on the knife. but you shouldn't do it.. its a really bad thing to even start out doing a little bit. its just like tabacco.. its addicting. so dont even try to do it if i were u!!

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i am addicted to cutting my wrists and i know its bad but i just cant stop what should i do? im not going to go to a doctors because they just dont understand and i didnt tell my parents because they would think i was crazy

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you really need to go to a doctor and tell your parents, you'd be suprised on how well they'd understand. go to a counclier and get on some anti depressants.. that may help! and i really hope that u get better and r happier.

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