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hey everybody . i LOVE giving advice because ive had a lot happen to me so i can like , relate to EVERYTHING there is out there .. not exagerating .. so you can really ask me anything , and i can easily base it on my own expeirience and tell you what is the best decision . [ spelling SUCKS i know im a dumbass ]
E-mail: fudgechoclate123@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: the projects of chicago
Occupation: comedian
Age: 14
AIM: hanstastic23083
Member Since: September 25, 2006
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Last Update: October 4, 2006
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i really need help. like, from a pyschatrist. and i really don't know how to ask my parents.
but first i wanted to ask everyone on here a few questions.
IF YOU HAVE BEEN TO A SHRINK;
-- is it weird talking to them?
-- does it really help?
-- how did you ask your parents?
-- how does it work? like the visits?

thank you everyone that takes the time to answer. (link)
i had the same exact problem like a year[ish] ago . in my opinion its not weird talking to them at allll . its just a person who wants to help you .. all you do is tell them your problems and they tell you what you should do to either calm down, get passed it, or make it better. i didnt come straight out to my parents , i just dropped little hints.. like telling her i had a horrible day at school .. refusing to go back .. acting depressed all the time [wasnt acting actaully] and things like that .. if she starts to get worried , your mom er somethin would prolly ask you about it . just be like ITS KINDA HARD TO TALK ABOUT THIS STUFF TO A PARENT , MOM/DAD .. MAYBE YOU COULD GET ME IN TO A PYSHATRIST . THAT WOULD REALLY HELP ME ! then shell look into it - hoepfully . if she never asks about it , bring it up . be like mom i have some problems and its hard to relate to you so maybe i could seek professinol help er somethin . please i/m me on AIM .. im really interested in how things go . hanstastic23083 .. hope i helped ..


hanna



I'm really confused about my sexuality. There are so many things that turn me on. I have no idea which ones for me. I don't know if I'm gay, straight, or bi. I don't know what I'm into. I'm so ashamed of the things that get to me. I mean we're talking like Jerry Springer style wierd. I have no idea what to do. I can't go out and experiment to find what I like because I can't even get a date, yet alone a sexual encounter, and even worse of a chance of getting a kinky sexual encounter. I'm so confused. I'm so scared. What can I do? I know it's naive to ask how to get rid of it, but what can I do? Please help me.
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in my opinion , this happens to everybody .. EVERYONE i know has questioned their sexuality at least once . i did when i was like 12 , and i turned out to be bi . you dont nessicarly have to get rid of it tho . just think about it .. would you go out with a guy , or would you go out with a girl .. or .. would you consider both ? [ and about the things that turn you on .. if they turn you on , they turn you on ! haha . its no biggy .. everybody has a different way of getting "aroused" er w/e . yours is just unique . get back to me on AIM with some more questions or concerns , `ight ? hanstastic23083 . hoped i helped


hanna




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