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i started cuttin in 6 th grade.. im now goin into 8th .. i stopped for 8 months but then my mom and this lady she knows got into a verbal fight and i hate fighting so i cut again.. [between the 8 months i only cut 2 but not bad] i got so upset that i cut and i left like 19 deep cuts... my mom and her best friend patti dont know i cut but patti knows what is going on so i have kind of been living with her a couple nights during the week because she doesnt want me to be around the enviroment.. well the lady moved out and everything is normal but now i still get really mad and cut.. is there anyway to stop cutting other than rubber bands and the red marker because it doesnt work.

[ i have told one adult who is 20 and she is talking to me when i go to work with her monday wednesday and friday but i still cut ] .. sorry it was so long. * thanks (link)
Hey. I'm going into ninth grade, and i'm giong threw the same thing you are. I have been cutting since 5th and I am just now trying to stop. Yeah, its to do because, trust me i know, its really addicting. It really is worth it though. The way I am trying now, because i do not want to talk to my mom or start going to therapy, although that may work for you if you want to try it, is by telling one of my very close friends who i trust with everything. After talking to her about it, i just call her whenever someone made me angry, or sad enough to cut, and she has a way of always cheering me up, and I have been cutting a lot less. I know things are hard for you right now, but stopping really will be worth it. Maybe try talking to a really close friend, if you think one could help you.

I dont know how much that helped// but I hope it did. Good luck hun !!




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