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I always have this one dream when something very important is going to happen to me. Whenever it happens it means something will happen, A death, A relationship, Anything life changing.It scares me because I know something is gonna happen and theres nothing I can do about it. Im in my moms old truck and its completely empty, its rolling toward the ocean, I look out the window and i see myself with the girl I love, usually it is flashbacks of my life, Im laying there with the girl i love and i wave to myself, the truck hits the ocean water and i drowned, then i wake up. Every time i have this dream i understand it more, it hasnt seemed like it was gonna end till now. I dont know what that means, am i gonna die or will i help myself from the sinking truck?

I'm going to take a scientific/psychological approach to answering this question. Your question really intruiged me.
Dreams are about every day things. No matter how imaginative, far fetched, and creative they may be, they do have to deal with your anxiety, your worries, and every day problems that you have to face.
There are two types of "dreaming". In REM sleep, you have imaginitve and creative dreams. I don't know the details, but this dream doesn't seem very 'out there'. There is also called sleep thinking, where your brain thinks about things that are rational, maybe something specific that has really happened to you. This is not during very deep sleep.
Do you worry about drowning? More realistically, do you worry about letting something happen? Is there something you know about thats going on in your life, or in someone else's life, that you have concealed and you're not doing anything about it?
Just like you're letting the truck roll into the water, you may be letting something else slip away. You're just letting it happen, or you're losing something/someone.
If any of this is true and it really is happening in your life/someone else's, try to stop it. Maybe the dream will end once and for all.
You are not going to die.

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