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Hi, I'm a 14 year old girl and I don't really feel normal. For starters my breasts are too small and I'm short, so I'm physically falling behind all of my peers. I know that I'll catch up though, so that only hurts my self esteem, but I'll be ok. What I'm really concerned with is mental development. I feel like I'm too "hormonal". I Masturabate once every two days or so and I have sex fantasies and things like that (although I'm not going to actually have sex for a long time). It just concerns me because most of the kids at my school seem so innocent, like they don't have hormones, or fantasies, or anything. So an I the only one? Am I "normal"? (link)
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Yes you are a normal teenager. First of all, girls grow and develop at different rates. I’m sure you will catch up when you have a growth spurt. Don’t worry about your breasts because they still have time to grow. Breasts don’t stop growing until your late teens and they can sometimes grow into your 20’s.
It is normal to feel hormonal when you are a teenager and that is completely normal. Believe me, you’re not the only teen who feels that way. A lot of girls and boys feel that way when they are growing up and going through puberty. When you go through puberty you will experience many changes in your body and your emotions. Most of it you can’t control because it’s your hormones that are in charge a lot of the time. During this time you can have mood changes, start to think about relationships and have feelings for the opposite sex. Feeling hormonal and having sex fantasies is normal. You may not think the kids at school have sex fantasies but they probably do. Masturbating is also normal, again both girls and boys masturbate although some may not admit to doing it.
You are perfectly fine, there is no need to worry =)
Here are some websites you can check out that give you more information about growing up and about puberty:
http://teenshealth.org/teen/
http://www.girlshealth.gov/
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Am I weird? All the people at my school and most my friends say that I'm mental and should be put into a mental facility. They all think that I'm weird and odd because I don't act like everyone else. I'm confused. I'm a free-spirit but I don't know what is wrong. Please help...thank you! (link)
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No you are not weird because you don't act like everyone else. It's ok to be your own person and there is nothing wrong with being a free spirit.
Ignore your friends comments that was a really stupid thing to say. Your friends might think you have to be like everyone else and conform but you don't have to. Be who you are and don't let your friends comments get to you.
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