I'm 31 year old male and I've had many experiences with boyfriends, crushes, friends and family,drug abuse and mental health. I know quite alot about sex and sex related issues, so feel free to ask me anything about that! I can definitely give advice on drug abuse to. I'm going to be blunt and honest, because that's how I would want someone to be towards me. If you drop one in my inbox, please try to be as detailed as possible (like your age and gender) so I can be as helpful as possible.Look forward to hear from you. Check out my blog at asktimsandiego.blogspot.com
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Im 14/f i keep feeling depressed and i dont know what about, usually im really talkative, but when i get this depression, i just dont want to commmunicate and i feel like my body is slowing down, i often feel ill and sometimes i just start crying for no reason, why is this? (link)
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People sometimes feel hopeless and depressed for no reason sometimes it has to do with a childhood situation and sometimes it has to do with anxiety of doing to many things and a young age.Take deep breath and go see your school councilor she or him can help you with teen depression is a big problem for teens as well as a adults I have suffered from depression for along time,And I take medication and I talk to a councilor and some of my friends that can relate and that are going through the same thing that I am. Get some support and don't be afraid this happens to allot of people the main thing is to educate your self so you know.Take care
Tim
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I have a 17-year old daughter who is currently a senior in high school. All her life, she has never had a boyfriend or even a friend that is a boy. This specifically is not why I am writing, because she is free to be friends with whom she wants. However, she has confided in me that she is afraid of men and boys and has been her whole life. I am not sure if it is getting worse as she gets older or is just manifesting itself in different ways. I was never like this so I am not sure what would be considered 'normal' feelings for her to have. I have talked to a few close friends about this and they say that I should look into her past to see if anyone could have hurt her in any way. I can think of nothing, except for things that I don't think would still have much of an effect on her now, although maybe you think different (if so, please tell me). What I am thinking of happened during preschool. There was a group of boys that used to chase her and scare her all the time at recess. She was very afraid and for this reason she spent time hiding from boys and staying physically very close to her female friends. When she got older she always feared them. Although she is a shy person, it isn't a fear of rejection. She is afraid that they will do something to her to harm her. She can't even watch the news because of all the rapes and things of that nature.
I just don't know what to do or how to make it better. I would just like to find out what happened to make her this way and how to help her get past her fears. I appreciate any input you can provide. (link)
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There is a number of reason why she could be afraid of
male's She could have witnessed males in her life being
physically or verbally abusive. Which caused her to have
trust issues. Besides for that she could have not necessarily been
abused but neglected or lost an important male figure in her life
which causes the fear. Signs you maybe want to look for would
be recurring nightmares or flash backs of UN explained incident
I would maybe suggest a councilor that would be better trained
to figure out what the issue maybe. I hope this helped please
feel free to send me a message if you have any further questions.
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I really honestly am stuck on what to do..... Im so short money and I still need to pay my phone bill.. I have to get all my stuff to deadwood before the end of march when my lease ends in my apartment... my car just broke down and i still owe about 2800 dollars on that... thank god for my mom letting me drive her car.... I jut feel like everything is falling on me at once and its just too much. I know im not the only person out there with these problems but I need some advice to let me know what i can do so i dont end up in the nut house!!!! (link)
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Ok first thing is you need to put it out there that everthing will work out,this sound crazy but trust me it works.Life is a road of obstacle's,everthing that we go through,bills not having enough money,break ups these are life's test,and the way you pass the test of life and dealing with everday problems,is tell your self that you will not let not having enough money or over due bills keep you for keeping control.Everyday when you wake up say to your self it will all work out and i am an control if you keep putting it out there,you feel feel better and you will be amazed how things will start working in your favor.
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