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Hi I'm Ashley. I'm 18 years old and married to the greatest guy in the world. I'm 7 months pregnant and excited to what my future has to bring. I graduated high school this past spring with the class of 2005. I love helping people and trying to give them the best advice possible. I have had a lot of life experiences, not saying that all have been bad although there has been a share of them. I'm open & ready to answer any question asked and don't mind doing further research to better my answers. Feel free to ask anything, I'll do what I can to help. =]

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A few years back I had this friend who was really nice. But then after a while she started acting strange. If she saw me talking with another person she'd get all mad and butt in and tell them I was her best friend, and her only best friend. And then she started getting weird and always wanted me over, and if I couldn't come she'd start yelling at my Mom.

So my Mom made me break off the friendship with her in fear of my own health. I did. And she was devistated at the time, but when I changed schools and moved across town, I stopped hearing from her.

But now, three years later, she's sending me threatening mail, she's calling my house, and she won't stop IMing me on different accounts after I block her. I'm pretty creeped out, and I would go to the police, but she hasn't said anything too threatening. She's just calling me bad names and all that.

I really, really want her to stop. What should I do?

Thanks. Sorry this was so long!

~KaT

You could try changing your screenname. Although it is really ridiculous to have to change your life around for some odd person. Just talk to her and let her know that if it doesn't stop then you are going to go to the police because it's getting out of control. You haven't done anything so awful to her and if she hadn't been such a controlling friend then you guys could still be friends. You could ask an adult, such as your school counselor, if there is anything the police can do such as a protection order where if she contacts you she can be in trouble. I'm sure everything will get worked out. =] Good Luck & God Bless!

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