heyy...heather here!
what i like to do--
*give advice to mi friends when they have problems
*write novels
*play basketball on a traveling team for my town
*play rectriation softball
*watch baseball
*go to the mall
*talk on my cell phone!
*go one aim
*pick up guys!
--mi favorite mood is..hmmm..cute
im such a girlly girl..
lovin life is what i do best!
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i have a wonderful bf of one month. we were friends beforehand for 8 months..we got so close..we have so much respect for one another and such a strong bond.
the problem? last night i was drinking with a bunch of friends..some of our guy friends wound up coming over. i was the drunkest i have ever been..i went up from behind 2 of my guy friends and hugged them from behind and my hand went over their crotch area. a little while later the guilt sunk in and i feel so horrible. i told my bf and he doesnt know what to think, he said we will talk today. my queestion : if this were to happen to you what would you do? what can i do to make this better? im thinking like making a solid promise to NOT drink again for as long as we are together... any other suggestions? what i did..is this understandable or is theere no excuse?
ive liked my bf for soo long..since the summer..and i finally got what i have wanted for so long. i dont want to ruin this relationship!!!!! i DONT cheat..what i did..that wasnt me!! i feel like crap omgg :(
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you must be someone really honest and caring if you told him about that straight up. I think that he will probably forgive you if he loves you. He should realize that you were drunk and that you love him so much.
good for you that you are completely honest in a relationship.
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Alright so I know people ask this a lot but hey help me out too. So there's this guy who we can call Joe and we were both at a party last night. Well I got really tired so I decided to go lie on the couch and he was there so I used his arm for a pillow. Well, I gradually got more comfortable and so did he and he had his hand on my stomach and he was playing with my arm all cute and stuff and we were holding hands (with the one that was on my stomach) and everytime hed get up hed come back and get in the same position again. We're friends and that's just not how our friendship is like if I give him a hug in the hall hes like "Oh hey Susan." and its just a brief hug. Do you guys think he likes me as more than a friend? I think I like him as more than one so I don't want to get my hopes up.
Thanks
PS when I was asleep on him he whispered to my friend and asked her if I liked him if that means anything (link)
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of course the PS meant something...i think he likes you...GO FOR IT!
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Okay, my mom has a friend who has a son. They came over one night and this was the first time I have met him before, he kept on staring at me or just looking at me in the eyes a lot. That night he asked his mom for my e-mail adress and I got an e-mail from him saying " you looked amazing the other night and I think ur really cool, I want to get to know you better," or "do you have a boyfriend" or "what are you most like? Calm and collective, or wild and crazy?"
and stuff like that and I just dont know... is he interested in me?? He's a senior in High School and I am a freshman. What should I do?!?! (link)
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I THINK YOU SHOULD GO FOR IT!!!!he is obviousely attracted for you..just dont make it obviouse you know...keep it cool....GREAT FOR YOU!!!
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Is it a total turn off to guys if a gurl dosent walk the same (sright normal ,but still can walk and dance) way. But i mean she can still talk and is nice and stuff and has average body? Ill rate five for thought out anser. (link)
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NO!..a guy could care less how a girl walks..i think all that he is looking at is a body n a personality....go for it!
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okay. 15/f. so ive been in a tangle of relationships latel. my boyfriend of 1 year broke up with me less than 2 weeks ago. so just last weekend i thought okay. im getting over you so im going to go out and have some fun. well. he did the same thing. i didnt care at all but he called up one of my friends all mad bc i was out with another guy. i explained to him he cant tie me down nemore bc we arent dating. well get got mad at me. so then this tuesday he got a new girlfriend. againg. i dont even care. and hes trying to make me jealous!! because i was with the other guy. is there anyother weay i can tell him im not going to get jealous of him and his new girfriend and he cant get mad at me for being with another guy, because ive tryed talking to him and ignoring hiom. but it didnt work. AND hes been spreading rumors about me. and its making me hate him. ive tried being nice but its not working.(he thinks im trying to get on him when im nice) ive tryed ignoring him. but he just gets mad. ive tryed being mean back but then he spreads rumors. and tells people everything ive told him. SO IM JUST SICK OF IT AND DO NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO ABOUT ALL THE DRAMA HES CAUSING.
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i think that you should call him up and be like..hi..alright..i am not trying to get up on you or anything..im just sick of fucking fighting all the time with you...i dont know how else to let you know that i dont care if you have another girlfriends..and you really shoulnd get mad at me for being with another guy because WE ARE OVER!!!..and then listen to what he has to say....
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i have this amazing boyfriend who i love talking on the phone with for hours and i love him now i no this is going to sound shallow but whenever i see him i think ew how ugly cause he got pimples should i break up with him or what i need help cause i am seeing him in like 2 weeks 13/f >3 (link)
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DONT BREAK UP WITH HIM!..ohh emm gee...look...i have some pimples..and you cant just poof them away..im sure he doesnt like them...HE DOESNT HAVE A CHOICE...use commen sence please!
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ok...im 13/f and well i had a bf this last summer and he broke up with me but the thing is he was perfect for me . i no everyone says that but he really was everything i could ask for in a guy and i had liked him for about 2 years. when he broke up with me i was devastated and i still haven't gotten over him and he promised we would be friends but whenever i try to talk to him on aim he signs off. and i can't stop thinking about him. he's always on my mind. like when the song we belong together comes on it makes me cry b/c that was the first song that we danced to and im just ready to get over. help (link)
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aww..im sorry..it is hard to get over someone..i think what you need to do is find someone else and see what happens...maybe HE will get jelouse...
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i asked this girl in school if she would go out with me she said yes and then like 2 or 1 month later she brock up with me do u think she still likes me or do u think she likes someone else (link)
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i am very sorry to say that i think she likes someone else..because she wouldnt have broke up with you for nothing...im sorry...
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just monday my boyfriend and me had a fight.You see on sunday i called him and his sister answered and she was telling me that my boyfriend and his ex-girlfriend ericka had a relationship ever since we were going out but she ever found out about are relationship and the next day he was telling me that he was not cheating on me. But i did not believe so i asked his friend that he never lies to if he was telling the truth so he was but because of his past it interfere our relationship and on tuesday he wrote a letter saying that he still liked me and never would cheat on me at the end of the letter he asked if i trust him and i said yes so ever since that day me and him are still going out but now i am still having thoughts if he is still liking any of his ex's but now he is backing away from his friends that are gurls and his ex's. I am wondering if i did the right thing. (link)
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i think you did the right thing...also..little sisters dont always tell the truth..for all you know she could have been mad at her brother or something..trust is needed in a relationship.
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Wat do I do?! My boyfriend just left for Dallas and I'm never gonna see him again. But i've thought it over and over again. I didn't really like him. It's all confusing. (link)
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then tell him..it is the best thing to do for ur situation..he will move on sometime..n it should be good for him to get a girl there...i bet u must be so confussed...good luck
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