my name is Michelle. I'm 19 years old, currently working as a recreational supervisor. I love going to the gym, swimming, running, sleeping, reading, looking at the stars, talking on the phone, hanging out with my boyfriend and friends, and just generally like to have a good time.
I'm happy to help with any questions you might have - I'll answer them the best i can!
xoxo
Gender: Female
Location: Canada
Occupation: Recreation supervisor
Age: 19
MSN: peaches1847@live.fr
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how do you know when you're in love? (link)
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I think its a different feeling for everyone - and that you just know. For me its that you want to be with them all the time, you can't stop thinking about them, you would do anything for them, and when youre together, nothing else matters. Its an incredible feeling.
Hope that helps! xoxo
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Alright. This will be long. Brace yourselves. I started seeing this guy over the summer and it started out as a fling. I am a senior in high school and he is a senior in college. He lives 10 minutes away from me, but he goes to college across the country. When we first started seeing each other, both of us thought it would be just a fun hook-up thing, and nothing more, especially because of our 4-year age difference. We both thought when summer was over, that would be that, and we'd never see each other again.
Turns out, we liked each other more then we expected. We texted and messaged daily for the past few months while he was away at college, and we told each other how we couldn't wait to see each other again. A couple of weeks ago he came home for winter break. We hung out almost every day, and he even met each other's families. Plus, he wanted to introduce me to his brother and friends which I see as a good sign. We admitted to each other that we like each other a lot. He isn't one to say cheesy or corny things and he is always honest, so when he says he likes me, I know he means it. I love seeing him and he loves seeing me. The age thing doesn't phase us anymore, either.
We'd go out and have fun and we'd stay in and have fun too. We basically can't get enough of each other. He left a few days ago to go back to school and it made me sad. I even cried a little, but not in front of him. Neither of us like saying goodbye. We're still contacting and I assume we will every day just like before when he was away. He will come back in a few months for spring break and then again for summer vacation not long after. I'm assuming we will still be seeing each other throughout all of that time.
Don't get me wrong, though, we are not technically dating, like boyfriend and girlfriend. I guess you would say we are seeing each other. Maybe dating. Just not "officially". Because of this, I don't know if he is hooking up with other girls or not. He doesn't know if I'm hooking up with guys either. I wouldn't, though, and I don't think he would either. It's kind of an unspoken thing. I just... trust him. And since we're not technically dating, I guess I couldn't get mad if he hooks up with some girl anyways.
Sorry, I'm getting a little off track. The thing is, I really think I am falling for him. I have learned from experience not to put my heart on the line and jump into things, so for me to say that I am falling for him is a pretty big thing. I look at guys at my high school and i just have absolutely no interest. However, I'm going to college next year, and I want to have fun. I'm not saying I want to go and hook up with guys nonstop, but I want to have the fun college experience that everybody should have. But, at the same time, I don't want to ruin my chances with him. I'm worried that I'll decide to forget about him and have fun in college and then realize that he is the only one I want to be with. I don't think I could forget about him, though.
Also, I don't know what he is going to think when I go to college. I don't know if he will assume it is over or what. I want to stay with him but i don't want to miss out on college experiences. It's so hard! I need help. I know it may have seemed unnecessary for me to include all of that text, but I think background info. is important. Thanks so much. I appreciate it! (link)
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You definately need to talk to this guy, and make sure you both know where you stand with eachother.
It is very possible to have awesome college experiences, and still have a boyfriend who isnt there with you. I'm doing it - and it is hard sometimes, but it can be done.
However, you need to make sure that this is what you both want - because if one or both of you doesnt, then it will cause problems in your relationship.
It sounds like you have amazing chemistry with this guy, and I know how hard it is to decide whether or not you think it'll last through a big change like going to college. Sometimes it is better to have a clean break, and start afresh when youre meeting new people, but it is also really great to keep other people in your life.
You ultimately need to talk to him and see where you both stand...and go from there.
Good luck! xoxo
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i'd really like to do something nice for my boyfriend, just because. something that doesnt cost a lot but means a lot.
i've made him a cd for him before of all the songs that remind of us each other.. and for the front and back cover i custom designed it with pictures of us. he loves it.. he listens to it everytime he's in his car.
i really want to do something else like that for him because he's such a great boyfriend and i want him to know how much he really means to me.
any ideas?
thanks a bunch! :) (link)
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I think making something is probably the best plan..its a lot more personal.
I had this problem a few months ago, and I decided to cook my boyfriend a big dinner, with all the food he really likes. I served it on a fancy table, with candles and everything. He really loved it, and its something that both of you can enjoy, and make memories together. You could also make him a really nice card, and leave it in his locker, or some place where he'll find it when you're not around. Or perhaps a little 'treasure hunt' of different things...to lead him to you!
hope that helps xoxo
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