DONT BE SHY-
my look may have the physical appeal of an airhead or a blonde bimbo but behind the look i may lead you to think is the total oppisite. i am girl who has exprienced && made my way through many difficult hard situations that many would of given up or will never exprience throughout their life. yet underneath it all i still have high standards for my self && my ambition ables me to achieve what i dream. i believe that i can cover most any topic && problem b/c i take my past as a lesson && turn into knowledge meaning i can give you more than just my opinion but i can give outcomes/facts/simlar feelings on many different situations. dont hesitate to ask anything. im open to any subject/conversation; i promise youre answer will be give a load of thought && completely honest/real/truthful quick response. i will not hold what i think back whitch in the end benifits you. DON'T BE SHY;
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the other night i was at this dance && one of the guys asked me out. we are sorta friends so i said sure. its been like 2 days && he still hasnt called me? i think its weird && i want to know whats going on but i DONT wanna call him for the first time && be like "omg why havent you called?!" soo what am i supposed to do? (link)
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hey girl-the best bet is too call him since you are together you have the right to know whats up. dont be jumpy on the subject of why he hasnt called but deff try to get that point across in a calm matter && mention youd like to actually have a realonship, b/c not talking for 2 days when you perfectly can be incontact is kinda cray?? good luck
-stephanie
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can i go die. im sick of getting dicked over. and lied to. over and over again.what the fuck do i do. (link)
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hey girl-you shouldn't let others actions effect you like they are. thats letting them win. showing them you dont need thier bullshit && lies is what will change the whole situation. i hope you can build the cofidence to stand up for yourself && not let people walk all over you. b/c no one deserves to be treated like a doormat.
good luck
stephanie
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How do I ask my boyfriend about having sex with other girls, and how do I tell him I dont want to do anything if he hasnt done anything yet. And if he does do something how do I tell him no? I dont want to ruin things with him.... (link)
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hey babe-if you are feeling youre boyfriend is having sex with other girls, you should be straight up about it and ask him b/c that is disrespectful/untrustworthy of your bf. i would adivse you to do it in a calm matter so he has a better chance of telling the truth; also you should inform him that you dont want to do anything so you dont get too attached && get hurt when he is mad that you wont do what he wants and if he cant accept the fact that you arent comfertable doing certain things then he is the wrong guy for you. i hope it works out for the best!
stephanie
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Ok im 13 and a female. I know for a fact that my crush likes me and knows that i like him. We're both good friends and pretty shy so should i wait for him to ask me out or should i do something?? (link)
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hey girl-my best advice for that one is just talk with him about being together. no necessarly 'ask him out' but give him a hint && talk to his friends about it, getting them to push him..but the time will come when its meant to happen so dont push it; good luck!
stephanie
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wut if your with a guy who has no home, barley anything to eat. does ice awl the time. but says he wants to be with you. and you want to be with him more than anything. its like one of those guys that you can tell is really lost and needs help. bbut hes almsot 4 yhears older than me,. shit idk wut to do. (link)
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hey babe-ive been in a simlar situation && i have an idea of how you feel. for one you have to remember that you cannot change anyone. only he can change him. as much as you can be a guide to him, he will look at you as a younger girl && not take you as seriously. i dont mean that to be rude but being completly honest; it happened to me. also helping him is also risking him pulling you into his hole that he is in so if you are easily perssure i would advice not to be with him. maybe just being friends so you arent depended on him. if he says he is willing to change && you get that vibe/confidence from him then go for it. but be extremly difficult. being strung out on ice is a tough game. good luck
stephanie
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I want a boyfriend..but everytime I find a guy he either doesnt want a girlfriend or he just wants sex..I hate not having a boyfriend when all my other girlfriends have boyfriends. How should I go about finding a boyfriend that just wants to be with me for the right reasons? im 16 years old..and Im a female..I only told you that cause they said to! later (link)
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hey hun-finding a boyfriend now a days can be pretty tough whitch you gave complete proof too. finding the 'right one' is almost unrealistic but my best advice was ask youre girlfriends to introduce you to guys that are nice, trustworthy && respectful, or someone that you could get along with and have a good time also go to the mall, or wherever people your age hangout at. eventually you'll run into a winner! sorry with the luck you are having but the best is yet to come! good luck
--stephanie
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I CANNOT break up with anyone. I used to be able to but now I just CAN'T! I can't stand the fact that I'm breaking up with someone that I still want to be friends with. Usually I have my friends break up with the guy for me, but it just doesn't seem...I dunno. The guy I want to break up with now is awesome and I CAN'T and i mean Can't stand to break up with him but I have my reasons and I want to. Does anyone have any ideas of how I can dump him with out being mean? (link)
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hey babe-my best advice is if you really want to breakup with him then you will push yourself enough to do it. i mean a motivation is all of the reasons you want too will not be a problem anymore && once you say i want to break up && explain yourself its over. thats it. sure he can be immature or whatever but youre being the stronger one in the situation. think of it that way. good luck i know you can do it girl!!
stephanie
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When is the right time and moment to kiss a girl? (link)
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i believe that a perfect kiss can't be planeed or forced. it is something that happens when the time is right , when you get that vibe go for it. dont hold back but dont be like at 7:42PM hhah
goodluck!
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