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Hey!I'm Kendall, i go by Kenda, and I'm 15 years old. I love to hang out with my friends, party, go shopping, read, & write. School isnt really challenging to me, so I really don't try all that much & still get all a's. I like to do alot of wild & crazy things because, hey, you only live once so why not try it? I don't spend too much time with my family, so I'm not quite good at answering 'how do i apologise to my parents?' questions, but I can help you with family problems. Ask me anything x3333

Im a sophomore this year at NCHS so i've delt with tons of problems over the past few years. I love to give advice to anyone and i hope i do a good job at it too. You dont have to put your name on the message if you dont want. Ask me anything, so dont be shy or nervous! :D I respond pretty fast to questions!

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Kendall... I dont know anymore! I cant take it. I my boyfriend and I have been fighting alot lately and I dont know anymore! He gets jelouse and he doesnt trust me and I hate it! What can I do... I do what he wants me to do and I tell him everything and I would do anything for him! What do I do! I dont know anymore! Help me please!

Ask him what his problem is! Tell him that if he wants to keep this relationship he needs to learn how to trust you AND respect you. Fighting doesn't help anything between you guys, it just tears apart your relationship. He should know that. Little fights are normal but if your guy's fights turn into big ones where you're constantly yellin at eachother then you might want to re-consider this guy! Tell him how you feel about him and that he's the only one for YOU! Hope i helped!=)

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well lets see i have a girlffrind she is pretty hot and i want to make out with her but i think she doesn't want to what shall i do

Just ask her if she wants to. If she doesn't want to then back off a little and maybe ask her next time. If she wants to then just go with it.

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The problem is he isnt the only guy that has done this, everyguy i end up really liking, starts to like my sister, and she just flirts and makes them like ehr more.

Talk to your sis about all this and how you feel towards her doing that stuff. If you tell her that you REALLY REALLY like the guy then maybe she'll back away a bit and let you have this guy. If she still doesn't do anything about it and continues to flirt with them then just invite them over but leave the house with them when he gets there, that way she can't interrupt you guys=)Hope i helped!

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Everytime I start to like a guy and he likes me back everything ok. Then he comes to my house and we hang out, and he meets my sister. Then I find out he doesnt like me any more but he likes my sister! I dont know what to do and im sick of it! im thinking of doing something things that arent good, but i just cant take it anymore.

Hmm..maybe this guy isnt good enough for you! i think you deserve better if this guy is just gonna go and try to get with your sister. Don't let him come back over, because chances are he'll start asking you if he can to "hang out", but in reality he's just playin you to get with your sister. I'm sure that you can find another guy who will treat you right, and like you for YOU. I know this all sounds like corny and stuff but that guy must be a jerk if he drops you and then goes for your sister. If you want you can i.m. me on OMFGITSKENDALL and give me more details so i can figure this all out! Hope i helped=)

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ok
i have a problem
my x bf who i havent seen in like 3 months came ovr the other day and he has abused me b4 but he still likes me..what should ido

It really depends on what YOU wanna do. Maybe he's changed for the better to be with you. But then again maybe he hasn't changed and still thinks that he can hurt you. Watch his temper and what he does when he gets mad. If he constantly throws things or hit things, then he's probably still a threat!=( But if you do love him maybe you can change him for the better. But if you can't, then he's probably going to be like that for a very long time. Try to find somebody else that will treat you with respect, don't let this guy keep coming back to you. You deserve alot better than abuse hun!=)Hope i helped
*kendall*

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my ex-boyfriend is into guys and girls, and we just broke up not to long ago and i haev another friend who is into guys and girls too, and they like each other and they are both my best friends, but i still really like me ex-boyfriend so it is a little weird for me, and i talked to my friend about it, but i dont know how to handle it.

*very confused*

Well there's not much you can do really, but support both of them no matter what their sexuality is. Maybe you could hook both of them up. Your ex could just be in a stage for a while of trying to experience both sex's, so MAYBE he might stop having feelings for guys, but then again maybe not. Just stick by him and be a really good friend to him during this. Don't push your friends TOO much into dateing or just hanging out, it could be uncomfortable for both of them, especially if they just found out that they are Bi. Hope that helped hun.
*kendall*

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my bf never really talkes to me that much..unless were sorta alone which never happens!! if we aren't alone..then he just kind smiles if i say something..or is just like ok.. i realllly like him!! what do i do..??

-talking concerns

He's probably shy! Most guys are! Try and set up a date on the weekend so you guys can be alone. He still likes you, so dont worry! But he's still probably warming up to the fact of having a girlfriend. He's probably nervous that he might say something wrong in front of you or something. Dont worry about it!

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everyday we go to lunch and me and a few friends play truth or dare.. well like im never dared to do anything so im usually happy. i was dared the other day to kiss this boy jake.. and i did. because him and i have kissed before.. yeh sure its no harm done and we acted like it never happened. but my friends made a BIG deal over it for nothing.. what do i do to tell them to chill!?

Tell your friends that it was ONLY a dare, and they're the ones who made it up! If they keep making a big deal after you tell them, then they're being really immature. To get them back just dare one of them to kiss some random ugly guy! ha that'd be funny! Hope that helped!

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hey ok i have a problem i like this guy and ive really gotten to know him but he probably likes this other girl and idont know what to do cause i realllllllllly like him!!! help!

Talk to him more!! And hang out with him this weekend! That way if he does like another girl, he can get her outta his mind and focus on YOU! Just like flirt with him alot when you guys hang out. He'll get the hint and flirt too! The more you hang out with him, the more time he's going to have you in his mind and not that other girl! He could just like the other girl as a friend and maybe you got it the wrong way. Good luck!!=)

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Whats a rebound girl? i think i kno but im not 4 sure lol i kno its a really dumb question but

It's a girl that a guy uses after he breaks up with his girlfriend.

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Hey I'm 14/m and i still haven't ever kissed a girl outside my family.... I feel kinda out of place here because I'm already in high school and ive never kissed.... is there something wrong with me?

hey! no there's nothing wrong with you at all! You should probably wait for the right person to come along to have it with. Im 14/F and i havn't had mine yet either. It's normal. Just wait for it to come, it will soon

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i have liked my ex boyfriend for over a year now and it sucks so much i just wanna get over him. i have tried dating other people and stuff, nothing seems to work. please help me

I know what it feels like..the same thing is happening between me and my ex-boyfriend, except he keeps asking me out but i keep rejecting him because he's hurt me too much. But anywayz, the only way to get over him is mainly concentrate on school work (if you're in school), and try to find a new guy. I know that this guy will always be stuck in your heart, but try and put the new guy at the top of your heart. Getting involved in sports and clubs keeps you active and thinking about other things. Otherwise if those don't help, i really cant help you either because he was probably your first love..and first loves are never really over. Trust me. Well i hope i helped! xoxo~kendall

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I like this guy, but all my other friends like him and he is one of my best friends, and i have a boyfriend, but i still like this guy because i never get to see my boyfriend. Thisguy said he would never go out with me or anything because he said he wont with any of his best friends, but my other friends that are also his best friends think he likes me and i dont know what to do. They say he has never called anyone 5 times just to talk then call other people to find out where i am. But yea im just confused.

This guy probably does like you, but is too afraid to admit it or he doesnt want to ruin your guy's friendship. If he's one of your best friends then maybe you shouldn't start anything between him since you have a boyfriend and he doesnt want a girlfriend right now who's his best friend. Just look for more signs that he likes you or if he doesnt like you more than a friend. If he keeps sayin that he wont go out with you because your one of his best friends then leave it at that because it could make you and him feel uncomfortable. If he does like you and might ask you out then talk to him about it too!! Just look for more signs before you dump your boyfriend for this guy..because chances are he might not want a girlfriend right now. Hope that helped! xoxo~kendall

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What should I do if I really really like this person...but they go 2 a diffrent school... I mean I really like them but I would never see them and I dont think they like me either...And plus i feel like I can't live with out them!!! help!

Its okay hun! One of my other friends is dateing a guy that goes to West and she goes to Community and they are perfectly fine with it! Just ask him to hang out on the weekends and work your way up to a relationship status. Call him if you know his number and just talk to him and tell him how you feel about him..but not in too much detail cuz guys get a little scared of relationships at first! I think what your feeling is Love..ya know when you cant live without them! Just maybe it is! I suggest hanging out with him and flirting alot! lol! This guy seems perfect for you if u cant live without him!!=D Hope i helped! I.m. me if u want more details on dates n stuff with him!! xoxo~kendall

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i like this guy that goes to my school and i think he is really cool! But i have a booyfriend who i like so much more but never get to see him! Which really sucks! But this guy I see alot and he is cool but everyone likes him. Well i dont know what to do.

*confused*

Try and get to know the guy at your school before you go and jump to conclusions like breaking up with your boyfriend. If this guy seems interested in you alot and you like him alot too then maybe you and your boyfriend should split..because i mean hes at a different school and its hard to stay in touch alot! Totally your decision, but the guy at your school can be misleading and only like you for a friend so watch out! just watch the signs n ull be alright!=D Hope i helped!xoxo~kendall

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Well liek everyone i know likes me ex-boyfriend and i told one of my friends that i would try and hook them up even though i dont think he will go out with her. It hurts me so bad because i really love him and i know he doesnt love me anymore because i can just tell and i know we are over for good, but i still cant get over it and ive been crying for two days straight and i dont know what to do

*in love and crying*

Awww hun! I know what it feels like, but it'll take some time to get over him..maybe a few months i dunno. As for hooking up your friend with him i dont think that's such a good idea since you're grieving during this. Tell them that you have alot of things going on right now and you cant handle all of the stress. Tell them maybe a little later if you want. Maybe if you're lucky you guys will go back out again. But for now all you can do is just kinda cry cuz i know what it feels like. Just rent a movie with your friends and hang out with them, trust me having your friends around will help you out ALOT! And maybe try and talk to the guy about this whole thing..well dont exactly mention the breakup just remind him of all the good times you guys had and then he'll realize how much fun you guys had together. Just try and be friends with him and then maybe eventually it will turn into more! Hope i helped!! xoxo

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ok so this guy is really hott and sweet and like PERFECT and i think he wants to go out with me.. but i don't know him that well and he's 2 YEARS younger than me.. i dunno what to do! please help!
signed,
in love and confused

Awwwww!!=D Cute! Just like try and talk to him and get to know him before ya go out if ya guys do. Like casually invite him over or something and say "hey do you wanna hang out at my house this weekend maybe?" sumthen like that. rent a movie that he'll like and then you guys can watch it and like ask him questions about himself. Guys like to brag about themselves *Boosts their ego!!lol!* 2 years isnt much hun so just ignore the age difference. When ya know enough about him and he knows stuff about you then you two will probably hit it off;)Good luck! xoxo

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How can i make my ex like me again, they told me they loved me once and now they basically ignore me. What can i do?

Just try flirting with them and putting on some charm!;) Or even try to make them jelous by talking about some major hottie around them! That'll maybe want them to want you back! hope that helped! xoxo

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well my girlfriend just dumped me cuz she thinks i like her sister but i dont...and i when i was with her...my girlfriend got mad at me and i wanted to hang out with her sister cuz i hadnt seen her all summer and so yeah she dumped me and now im sad...wut should i do?
u no who
lol

Just tell your girlfriend (well now ex sorta) that you just wanted to HANG OUT with her..nothing more! If she doesnt believe you then obviously she doesnt trust you and trust is the more important key in a relationship. Although girls DO get jelous when there guy hangs out with another girl...but she'll have to get over it if she wants to be with you because you're ALLOWED to have friends that are girls! Tell me if that helped! xoxo

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Hey!
I talked to my boyfriend on the phone about 2 nights ago and when he ended the conversation he said " I"ll call you tomorrow because there probly wont be anything else to do." This really upset me...I don't think he cares about me as much as he used to and he doesnt make time to see me...what do you think?
~confused in love~

Awww im sry hun but he sounds like one of those bum boyfriends! Those suck major ass! Maybe he's not the right guy if he ends a friggin phone convo like that and doesnt make time for ya anymore! If you do break up with him or he breaks up with you, i know its gonna be sooo hard! Cuz if you loved this guy then it takes months to get over him because that's just how love is..trust me! Hope that helped! tell me how it turns out! xoxo

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