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Iam 20 years old and my bf is 21 years old. We have been together for 1 year now. My boyfriend is constantly leaving me then coming back to me. he tell me that he doesnt love me anymore, iam not pretty enough and he doesnt want anything to do with me but when i cut him out of my life and move on he says he loves me and he made a mistake and he wants me back. He wants me when he wants me. He downs me sometimes but then he will say the oppisite. He lies to me he never puts my feelings first. The question is should i leave him

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It's a known fact that guys don't go out with girls who aren't skinny, gorgeous, and flawless which is really unfair because i happen to be none of the above. Basically, I NEEEED a boyfriend, like its beyond just wanting to be with somebody it's a need to have that special somebody. Sure, there's friends and whatnot and they're important too (don't get me wrong) but sometimes you want somebody that can be more than just a friend to you. It's frustrating because some girls can get a boyfriend in a split second without even having to blink. people like me on the other hand have to sit back and watch these people and envy them while they work their charm. So what can I do to be more like them? To be glamorous and amazing so that guys will want me as much as they want those other girls? PLEASE HELP.

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hi im 14/f
&& ive been going out w/ my boyfriend for 7 months. && thats like a long time for my high school. but anyways... i still love him A LOT but it just seems like our relationship is getting a little boring. is there any way that i can add a little more fun to our relationship?

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16,female....

i'll try to make it as short as i can!!..

this guy liked me, we would hangout and stuff then he went out with another girl and then while he was goin out with her he would always say i like you more than her and then i was like why are you even going out with her then?? your stupid! and he broke up with her and hes like i only went out with her because i thought you liked this kid. and i was like nooo! so then he still liked me (i know he did alot =) but he was younger than me so i was like ehh..hes so cute though but then one night he got really mad at me for like no reason and said he never wanted to talk to me so i tried to make things better..and i was like why are you being like this, i heard you were talking crap about me and he was like F*** that i dont talk about you AT ALL. and i was like haha wow alright and he was like why are you even talking to me and i never said anything back but i MISS HIM. ive tried to like other guys, i try and not see him (he goes to a diff school) but i ALWAYS want to see him but its so hard now that he like hates me and now he is going out with another girl and i think he can do SOOO much better everyone thinks she is ugly even all his guy friends and everyone is like they are so not right for each other and it doesnt help that i dont like the girl and i saw his parents and i was talking to them and im like so you know he has a girlfriend and they're like nOO WHO?! and the dad is like i thought you were his girlfriend ;) and im like nooo =( but they love me! and they thought we were going out and i just hate seeing him with another girl. i wish he would just talk to me because ive tried but hes so mad for a reason and wont talk to me. all his friends think im hot they said and want me and him to go out! my good friends were like he just got mad because he liked you soo much and didnt think he could get you. and his cousin and his other friend were like did you guys really go out? and im like NO! who told you that? and they're like oh he did! so he told people we went out and like did stuff and then i saw his older brother one time and hes like how are you and my bro do you still like him and im like i never said i did and he just smiles so obviously he liked me or whatever but i just dont know now..it hurts me to see him and have him give me bad looks and i will go up to his friends and say like hey!! like last night we saw them at a hockey game and he was sitting by his girlfriend and me and my cousin walk up and im like hey bob!hey nick! hey tony! all his friends and then i never said anything to him because he would just start saying why are you talking to me and he gave me the ugliest look like why the hell are you over here and someone pushed him and his girlfriend together and im like haha wow!! but at the end of the game i was talkin to his friends and he was like right behind me talking to his girlfriend and her friends and then he like ran right into me and i dont know if it was on purpose or someone pushed him but he looked at me and then he still talks to my cousin and he came over by us and talked to her but wouldnt look or say anything to me. what should i do? i hangout with other guys, and i cant get over him! even though he is acting like this i just wish he would say i still like you and things could be better....

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my friend wants to know if there is anything fun you and a guy can do without getting inside eachother and crossing the 'Godly line'? anything like more fun? they've already madeout ans stuff so anything else mayb farther than that thats fun but not like an ungodly crime?

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