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Name: Kalie
Age 14
Location: Georgia
Height: 5,2
Interests: Shopping
Attuide: Picky, Wild, New

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On the last day of term before the christmas holidays, my boyfriend broke up with me. I was heartbroken and I wanted him back so badly. Then on christmas eve I met up with him and some other people and we got back together. At first I was so happy to have him back and everything was good, now it's the not the same. We don't hug and kiss as much as we used to, we hardly ever talk even though we see each other everyday. It's not the same as it used to be. I do love him but it isn't working. I know that if I broke up with him I would regret it and it would make things so hard for all my friends because we're part of the same friendship group. I don't want to break up with him but I feel like I have to, what should I do?

Hey! Okay, first stop trying to make everyone else happy, and instead focus on what you want and what you think will make "you" happy! If this relationship is not working or going as well, dont put yourself through it, ovb. you arent as happy as you wish you would want to be! Maybe you should talk to him about it and tell him how you feel ... usually that helps alot ... or if you think things just arent going to change, move on! You might be in the same crowd of friends but who cares, yall can still be friends! Just remember, everything happens for a reason!

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well i might be going to the movie with a couple of friends and my boyfriend later on today. but he's respectful of how fast i want to take things, and he asked me if it would be ok if he kissed me and i said that it was fine. and he said he was going to kiss me today when we went to the movies. the only problem is, its my first kiss and i don't know how to do it. this is really embarresing but i really need help. so please answer soon. i rate good. thanks in advance!

Its really sweet that this is your first kiss! There's not really a specific way to kiss, usually you just go with the flow, follow your partner and you'll get the hang of it! First kiss is usually really nerve recking because you dont know what to do, but just take it slow and enjoy it! Its fun and you'll love it!

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I love my boy friend so much. We have been going out for a while now and (i no its early) but valentines day is coming up and i want to get him somthing that shows i realy care and love him. Something really special. But the thing is, i have no idea what! any suggestions? thanks i rate high.. and srry to burst some of yalls bubbles, but sex is not an option l.o.l.

Thats really sweet! You need to get him something your not ashamed to give to him but also something you know he'll like! Maybe like a really sweet card with a sweet quote that just perfectly describes yall's relationship and than put some lip-stick on, and put kisses all over the card! Or have him a card ready and put inside "Happy Valentines Day, here's all my kisses" and give him a bag of Hersey kisses! You'll think of something just make sure its unique, something that no-one's done before, and totally surprise him! Hope I helped!

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i've known this guy named connor for 2 years i like him but i'm not that sure he likes me back.you see ever since he found out i liked him we've been avoiding each other.so i'm not sure he likes me can you help me?

He probably does but is really shy to talk to you or say the wrong thing, maybe you should confront him or talk to him about it, because he's probably wondering why your advoiding him too!

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Hay.. i once when out with this guy Hayden.. we went out for 5 months...im only 13 years old.. yeah really young to have any thing SERIOUS* well.. one time we went swimming.. we went into the house... n he was touchin me n places i didnt want him to touch me.. rite b4 he left.. he fingered me.. n i didnt want this to happen.. im affraid he is going to tell everyone at school what happend.. cuz if this gets out, they mite think imma hoe.. n im not the kinda girl who wants to be n this situation.. also.. i broke up with Hayden because he was a sick perv... i found a much better boyfriend named Justin! He is so great! *not a perv* but he heard about this rumer... i didnt want to tell him what Hayden did to me cuz i didnt want him to think i wanted Hayden to do this to me or that im that kind of person.. should i tell Justin what happend? or should i keep it to myself... Also.. what should i do about Hayden? i told him the real reason i broke up with him is because i didnt like him any more... should i tell him the real reason or keep it to myself.. Hayden and me broke up July 7.... i need help! answer all my questions please!

Hey! Well you shouldnt hide nething from your boyfriend because from what you said, it sounds like yall have a really good relationship together, and you dont wanna mess nething up, and im sure he will be understandable about the whole "Hayden" thing, and just tell him the truth if you wanna keep dating him, because no1 likes sercrets kept from them!

Hope l Helped!
- Good Luck -
Kalie Noelle

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