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i get turned on when my boyfreind is mad at me and i like when he man-handles me agressively, it excites me more when he takes dirty. like calling me whore, slut, tramp.. etc. why do i like it?

hey! well actually different people get turned on by all different things. Its called having a fetish. some people like feet, butts and kinky things. You just like rough sex. Its nothing unnormal. Everyone is different.Though im sure there are alot of people out there that like that just like you do. If you like something you like it dont worry about what other people think! you are your own person and if that satisifies you then do it! =]

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Ok, I've been talking to this guy from school online ever since summer break started. He's really awesome (and so cute) and he says he really likes me a lot. Last night when we were signing offline and going to bed he was like, "I 1073 You! Goodnight & Sweet Dreams!"

I don't know what 1073 stands for though. I know like the 143 thing meaning "I love you" but this 1073 is a new one on me. What's it mean? Should I say the number back to him or something? lol I don't want to look like an idiot and just ask him about it...anybody know?

Well, when I first saw this it looked like love spelt kind like backwards upside down, but I searched all the chat "slang" lists to see if its something else and I couldnt find anything. So its either some new "chat code" someone came up with or hes simply telling you he loves you. - i feel thats most likely what it is. If you kinda agree with me on that just ask him if thats what he meant. Im sure he wont get mad. If it isnt just explain it was a silly mistake you mad and ask him what it means. Don't ever feel like a idiot over something like that!

Wish you the best!
x2yankeesfan2x

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What do you love for girls to do while cuddling?

i personally like back massages lol..but just putting faces together rubbing noses and little kisses here and there. its romantic when you start with little kisses while cuddling then procede to bigger kisses/kissing the neck and ears then touching places and geting into stuff..some guys would rather that then the girl just jumping on him haha..but if you just wanna cuddle and tease him without anything sexual you can push your butt into him when your laying infront of him and move it and tease him and stuff. im sure any guy would like all of that. best of luck.

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how do you kno if a guy is just after being physical with you?? please help cause i need to find this out about this guy who keeps talking to me and stuff. thanks :)

Just like other people said, if he always talks about sex.
If its right and you both love eachother, you will know,if you both are there for eachother and not for sex you can tell,- if its just for sex, you'll get a funny feeling that somethings not right.Just follow your feelings.

Remember trust and honesty are the most important things in a relationship to have.
Hope I helped. =]

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I was wondering how long does a relationship has to go on before kissing happens I mean possibly every day or once in a while and how do I let him know I wanna start doing that
PS: My parents won't let me go on a date with just me and a guy until I am 16 so we will never be alone out in public only at school.I am 14.

ehh it really depends on the people..some first day or some after a week or so..when ever you feel ready to. you'll know when its right.

you dont really have to go out..you can go over a friends house/have a party.
hope i helped

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OK should i be stressing if my bf is talking to his EX? ANd cause he's trying to hide it from me. ( trust me I know) And if so, what do I do?

Well, not really,he might just wanna be friends with them,they might of been one of his really good friends.If you feel like he really loves you then you dont have worry about it.Relationships are about trust,if you really feel like you dont trust him,just try talking to him nicely about it. (dont flip out at him because it will make it worse) just explain to him that its making you worried.

Hope I Helped.

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has anyone ever gotten cheated on and took back the person? i was just wondering like if u eveer were able to forgive the person .. did u ever learn to trust them again. stuff like thatt

The answer is kinda up to you.I mean if you really forgive the person and trust them then give them another chance, but just make sure its the right thing because you can end uo getting hurt again.
-Some people just make mistakes.
-Some people do stuff because their make do it.
-Some do it to make their friends happy.
-Some do it just because they don't know they have something good, and wanna be selfish jerks.

Hope I helped.
Make the choice you feel the best about : )

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I'm dating this guy and we've been together for about 2 weeks but known eachother for a long time. We had sex and we talk a lot. We've told eachother we loved eachother, but he never calls me anything sweet like baby or etc. Does that mean he doesn't really love me all to much??


SOrry if its long.

Nope it does not mean that at all. I dont wanna copy the person below me but everyguy is differnt.Some especially act different around thier friends. Just make sure hes the right guy. The truth is, there isnt too many great guys left out there.

Hope I helped.

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Well i am 14/f, and i know im young but i think i am in love with this guy. His name is Chris, and hes 16. Well, we are like best friends. Hes always over my house, and im always over his. Well we about to cross the street, and it was night, we wanted pizza. Well a car went speeding past and he ran and pulled me back. We both got cuts and bruises, but he saved my life. And he was so worried he carried me home and stole his parents car and took me to the hospital. another time, i was locked out of my house, and he came and picked me up, and walked me to his house, I ended up sleeping over his house, in his bed with him. Well nothing happened, but we were cuddling. We have this thing that we get each other, and our families are so messed up, divorced and dead. But...he has a girlfriend, of 3 months, on and off. She is a whore and cheats on him but shes really attractive, and she has a hold over him. He tells me that he cant get over her and doesnt love her, and she hates me and curses me out, and i told her i love him and she punched me. He got so pissed and broke up with her but they got back together. What should i do? Tell him? or no? Thanks in advance

I would deffinatly tell him. Like the person before me said life is too short. I was always afraid to tell someone I liked them. Infact I was kinda scared when I told my current g/f lol, but now im really glad I did because I really love her. Everything seems scary the first time you do it, like a ride at a amusement park. the fist time you don't wanna but then after you do you wanna do it again.By the way about that too young to be in love thing, I don't know why older people think were too young to know what it is. Trust me you'll know when your in love.But I'd deffinatly tell him.If he risked his life to save you, im sure your special to you.

Hope I helped. - Sorry that its soo long.

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My friend && I like the same guy. He just happens to have feelings for me. I really want to get together with him but wouldn't that be betraying my best friend? What should I do?

Well i would sit down with your friend and explain to her that you are not trying to hurt her and that there will be more guys.

Hope i helped


Feel free to ask me a question any time.
I will the question the same day that you ask it.

Hope everything works out for you and your friend.

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