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Hey well, my name is Kristi. I'm 14 and I guess I've got some good advice for some of you people out there. Ask away. =)

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ok so i dont know what to get my guy for valentines day but i am thinking that i should just like kiss him on the cheek (or lips) and say like "that's my valentines day gift to you" i mean we are only 13 so it would be big not like nothing. do you think that i should?

I guess that would be a good gift, but maybe something else would be good too. Like a box of chocolate or something. They'll appreciate it. =*

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hey i need help really bad! i need help because i think i still have really strong feelings for my ex. i know he does to because he tries putting his arm around me and stuff but i tell him not to.. anyways the problem is we have been broken up for about 1 month and now i have a new boyfriend.i like him, but all the time i catch myself thinking about my ex... my new boyfriend is really great but he cant compare to the feelings that my ex gave/still gives me.. i dont want to mess up either.. can some one please help!

I think you should decide on which guy you like better, because someone is going to end up either pissed or hurt(or both). In my opinion, your ex is your best shot in this situation. Obviously you still want him, so go for it. =*

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i went out with my boyfriend for 9 months, and he was my 'first person', but things happend and we broke up :( . This was about 3.5 months ago, and he has a new girlfriend now. So i dicided to move on to and now i have this guy who i like and he likes me a lot too. But i have a problem because every time i'm with him i think about my ex! i can't do it :( ... it hurts inside to think of being with any1 else. THe problem is, my ex boyfriend doesnt want to talk to me, but somtimes i know that he misses me to, but doesnt want to be with me again. What do i do? I'm so lost :( please help, ill rate.

Try to get your him off your mind. Obviously you have a better chance getting with this new guy than going back out with your ex. You both need to try to move on. I know it's not going to be easy, but it's worth a good try at it. Spend more time with this new guy and you might get the hang of it. =*

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O-k my boyfriend is so cool.... but lately he's been acting differently. as if he wants more from me!! what should I do?

If you don't want to "give him more", explain to him that you're just not ready for it. If he doesn't listen, he doesn't have any respect for you. That would give you a hint that he's not worth your time. =*

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Hey my boyfriend is cheating on me but i really like him but he's cheating on me with my best friend and i really want us to stay friends so i dunno what to do should i be friends with them and still go out with them?

No. Both of them are lousy "friends". If they were TRULY your friends (and a good boyfriend) they wouldn't have done that behind your back. Dump them both. OR you can do it the nice way (even though they don't deserve it) and talk to them one on one. If you can help it, try to be nice. Hope that helps. =*

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