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hey wuz up. my name is Tre'Sure. im a wild and very educated 17 year old. i have a lot of incite on diff categories. i live in columbus but am from that good good Cali! right now im taken. yeah im wifed up!
my interests vary. OMG do they vary!!!!!
wat ever seems like a good idea and fun at the time thats what you will see me doin.
i hope that i can help out others/
with much love *SMOOCHES*

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This guy I know and I have had a really weird relationship...
When he met me, he told me I was fit and was flirting with me for a few weeks. Then he got a girlfriend and forgot that I existed.
The day that he split up with his girlfriend,he came and was talking to me...but I just got a boyfriend so I didn't exist again.
Then, a while after I became single again, his friend asked me out. I said yes, but during the VERY short "relationship", this guy paid more attention to me than my boyfriend did. Got dumped by said boyfriend...
Then this guy started flirting like hell with me again. I got off with him once (drunk), and now I don't exist again.
What is WITH this guy?

OK SUGAR this guy is nothing. do not waste your time on him. all he wnted was to "hook up" with you. and now that he got that you dont exist.thats why he flirted with you until he got a girl because he could get some from her then when you got your guy he waited. but when you was goin out with his friend he didnt care because they were friends(thatws how boys are) so now that he got what he wanted your nothing...well atleast not until he wants some again. i hope i helped
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i had this boyfriend and after about 2 months I broke up with him because i thought i didnt like him anymore!but then i started realizing i do but before i had a chance to tell him, he got a new girlfriend!now i am really jealous and i just can't get over it!!!!!how can i?help!!!!

YOU KNOW WAT HONEY i had that some problem before. what helped me out was to get everything off my chest. just tell him how you feel. that way you can get all of the "wat ifs?" that you have.if he doesnt accept then thats the way its gonna be. but you never know if he still likes you. i mean you guys broke up because you wanted to not because he wanted to. you know? so just talk to him and see what happens.
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OK so the kid i like (who has a g/f) asked me the other day online if i still liked him..and i tried changin the subject but hes like "No don't shange the convo.." so i told him: idk because you have a gf... then he said ooo ok..now hes talking to me a lot more..should i have told him that i still liked him? should i tell him the next time i talk to him? help me! i rate 5s!

OK BABE. in my opinion your did the right thinkg. but dont bring it up anymore. you told him you liked him now its up to him to figure out what he wants to do with his g/f and you. if you talk about it he might feel annoyed. so just wait and see how things play out. i hope i helped in a way
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omg i was so surprised when my bf said it was okay that i wanna take it slow and we can go at my pace..but i dont have a pace..so wut exactly is to slow to go with a guy without them getting annoyed or thinking ur not ready for the relationship or ur too immature?

HONESTLY BABE who cares what he thinks dont feel pressured to do anything you dont want. and if he gets annoyed or irritated then its his lost and hes not mature enough to have patience. anyone can rush into things and make mistakes but only a smart and responsible person can have patience and make sure what thier doing is right. thats the worst feeling. doin something then haveing regrets. if possible make sure your teeanage years are filled with fun and never regrets.
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Theres this guy well theres two guys and there both friends and they both like me. they didnt come out and tell me but i know there friends and sisters have told me and they give off more then enough hints. but my promblem is: they like me but i dont like them well at least i dont think i do see there bosinas and i dont date bosinas i only date americans i know i knoww sounds dumb but thats just me. and i kinda think i like one and i cant like him i wont let my self. but i kinda think i only like him or think i do is because im still trying to find the right guy. im 16 and i still havent found the right one. so what do u guys think my promblem is? thanks for the help..

*K

WELL SWEETHEART you only 16 80% of the time people do not marry there high sckool sweethearts.you have to keep yourself open to new things. what if this guy is the one and your not interested because of his race? that will suck! if he's the one you kinfa like then go for it. atleast you dont have to worry about rejection! have fun with your life. and be open minded. i hope i helped in some way
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my girlfriend latly has been ignoring me, and she has a real short fuse with me. Whenever i try to do somthing that shows i love her, she takes everything the wrong way and is like "why are you doing that" or somthing. we thought it was PMS a while back but she's been like this a while now. then i cant ever really show any affection for her, because (well i think anyway) that she feels crowded with this girl, who might i add is completly obsessed with her...the girls name is Ally, and all is CONSTANTLY hugging on, or holding onto my girlfriend and i think thats part of the reason she is acting the way she is. i cant pull her away for a long enough time to give her our first kiss and we've been together for 4 months. she doesnt ever really want to cuddle durring any movies at my house, because if ally happens to be there then ally is on her, and she doesnt want to leave/be rude to ally...sometimes she will blow me off for no apperent reason at all or with some excuse. is there anything i can do to make my girlfriend pay a LIL more attention to me, or is it pretty much hopeless?

OK the way i see it is give her a taste of her own medicine. leave her alone for awhile. obviously she dosent care about you right now. she might feel like she knows that your always gonna be there so she can be an ass to you now then be a perfect g/f later. let her know YOur not gonna put up with that.when she realizes your gone she will come to YOu and try to make it work. if she dosent then shes not worth YOur love. i hope i helped
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There this girl she likes this guy and this guy likes her but see I like her but I just can't show it how can I show it to her so I can prove that I love her?

you have to have confidence in urself. thats a MUST!! if you really love this girl let her know. she has the right to know.dont worry about this other guy. OK think like this. shes mine.POINT BLANK PERIOD. learn wat makes her laugh wat makes her smile. allow her to see the real you. create a friendship with her and build trust. thats all. everything else should fall into place.
i hope i helped
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