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The only thing that me and my boyfriend ever do is fight, and i am sick of it, so what do i do?
Also there is this other guy that i like so i am wondering if i should go out with him, and i don't really know if he likes me. How do i know if he does? (link)
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It all depends on, if you really like this person. If your willing, to sit down and adress the problem, and let him know that the arguments have to stop, because its bothering you, and its pushing you away. If you think that you would be better off without him, maybe you should explore your options. But also think about his positives sides, and not so much the negative. If his postives outway the negative, maybe you should hold on to him, and try to sort it out. Because you definatley dont want to leave someone you love for someone you like. These decisions always are tricky. So whatever you do, i hope you think thoroughly about the whole situation, and make a good choice!
-I hope i helped you! :))*
[[Tsz]]
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my boyfriend & i have been together now for about 5 months.
i am his first serious relationship since his last ex. & they dated for 20 months. they lost their virginities to eachother & everything.
just here recently, has made a year since they broke up. & she was the one who broke up with him, because he cheated on her.
my boyfriend & i made plans to go to a club one night & she was there. she kept giving me awful looks & staring at us. i've seen her before & she's never really acted that way to me.
then one day she sends me a message on myspace trying to say that i was talking bad about her to her friends & telling them that they couldn't be around her.
she & i get in a big argument & my boyfriend basically tells me to leave her alone.
my boyfriend & i go to different schools, but his ex & him go to the same school. & he told me that she came up & was talking to him really bad about me & that she apologized to him & everything. & he accepted her apology.
i'm not sure what i'm asking but i need your opinions on this situation. i've never started anything with this girl & i blocked her from my myspace & everything & i don't understand why she is always trying to talk to my boyfriend.
i mean, is she jealous? because she has a blog on her myspace that is specifically aimed at how bad she hates my boyfriend because he cheated on her, but i just don't understand. (link)
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She obviously loved him alot. And to see him so happy with another girl, it bothers her. If you havent been in that position, you couldnt even imagine how that feels. To really care for someone, and they basically "slap you in the face" by going out and cheating. Its the worst feeling someone could ever feel, and i wouldnt want anyone to feel that way, because ive been in that position before, it doesnt feel good. He cheated on her and disrespected her, and she hates the fact you two are together. Shes jealous that you have something she doesnt. Be glad shes jealous though, if your man really cares and loves you, you have no worries. Even though he once loved her, thats gone now and its in the past, your his main squeeze now. Dont pay her any mind when she pulls her little "elementary" stunts by messaging you on myspace. She obviously talks to him alot, because she wants what she used to have with him, that connection. She wants small conversation, to lead into bigger conversation, and that friendship to keep growing into a relationship. But if your man is good, he wont allow it. You have nothing to worry about.
-I honestly do hope i helped :))*
[[Tsz]]
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