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how can i proove to mi boifriend that i love him?..and how can i make him believe me that i didnt cheat on him?

oh boy, thats tough. Well tell your boyfriend the truth, even if it might hurt.. but tell him how much he means to you. Trust is a major thing in your relationship, and tell him that. Tell him that there is now way that you would try to break that trust, ecspecially by cheating on him. Let him speak and make sure you listen, look him in the eye! hope that helps

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Hey, please help me. (14/m) I was with this girl and a friend of mine, and we were all just hanging out, the girl that i was with is my girlfriend, but she's been since Thursday. She really is kind of creeped out by my friend because he likes her, but she won't like him because she likes me, and we're going out. Now my friend (we're going to call him F from now on) is good friends with my gf. Anyways, my gf and I were holding hands and everything until about 6:15 (PM), where my dad was going to drive up and pick me up. So right before he drove up, I asked her, "Hey.. (Gf's name here)... can I kiss you?" (Well my friend was making 2 fists and showing like making them kiss, and he wanted us to, so I asked) Anyways my gf says "Uhhh no," in kind of a laughing way, not meant to be mean, but she still meant no, so I said "Ok.." In kind of a quiet voice, and then my dad drove up as I waved goodbye. My question is, how come she said no? I don't know if maybe F was making her nervous or she wasn't ready or she was scared, or other things like that. Could someone please help me out, and explain to me what I did wrong and/or maybe give reasons why you think she said no?
Thank you for reading, please help ASAP...

Well maybe she just wasn't ready, I mean you havn't been going out for very long. Make her feel comfortable with you, and maybe not in front of your friend then ask. Dont ask next week though, she might feel like your rushing things. I dont know exactly what she feels because I dont know what kinf of person she is, but dont presure her into anything she dosn't want to do. Take your time.

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My boyfriend of a year his birthday is comming up and i have NO clue what to get him..last year i got him the Tupac CD and a card...and our anniversary was last month and i got him a sterling silver bracelet with mine and his name on it and on the bck it had our anniversary date and well his b-day is in like 2 weeks and i wanna get him something juss to top it all off! has anyone givin their bf sumn they really liked? can u tell me the story..even if its cheesy like u sang or danced 4 him..JUSS HELP!

cologne and a gift certificet to his favorite store

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there is this boy in school that i really like and today my friend told him that i like him but my friend told me that he doesn' like me. how do i get him to like me?

Well, most guys like girls that they can't get. So I wouldn't pay that much attention to him, dont let him see you staring at him in class or anything, and act like you dont notice him. I would say hi to him and if yall ever strike up a conversation make sure your really sweet! Dont ignore him, just dont make it so obvious that your crushing him

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Ok i have a problem there is this girl that i like well i should say that i basically fell for and shes going out with someone already. She still treats me as a very good friend and everything and we are kinda close but it just sucks cause she has a boyfriend and she doesnt realize that he does things to annoy her and a lot of other things that make her mad but she doesnt want to accept it. Im not sure if it is just me talking or what but i need to ask am i just jealous of the guy or am i looking out for her? and also what should i do about this?

I had that same situation, except i was the girl that wasn't accepting it. If yall are really good friends, and you have told her that you dont think your boyfriend treats her right, your oppinion should matter to her. I think that you are just looking out for her, because you care for her and dont want her to get hurt.. which is really sweet and hopefully she will notice that.

If you havn't told her, tell her how you feel.. but tell her in a gental way. You tell her what you think, then let her speak her mind... dont get mad though.

Do other people notice how her boyfriend treats her? If so, then tell them to "gradually" mention it to her. Tell them to ask her questions (for example..my boyfriend never really invited me to hang out so people started asking me "hey.. how come you and john dont hang out that much?" And then it might make her relize that your not the only one who think he dosn't treat her right.

Okay, i know that was long.. sorry but i hope it helps

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