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im in middle school and my ex is named austin
and i broke up with him because there were rumors that he was gonna break up with me. so i decided to break up with him before he breaks up with me. but i REALLY LIKED him. and he kept on telling me "i love you" but i pretended i didnt listen. so then i did and he said "oh.umm ok.if thats what you want." and he left. i regret it soooo much.
now today at school we were having this concert and i was the photographer and i had to take photos where austin was sitting with his friends and the WHOLE time he kept on looking at me and putting his head down. i felt bad and i wanted to rush in his arms and say " i love you too, and im sorry" but i was too scared and a coward. and i know he still likes me because my friend asked if he still liked me and he said "no i loved her but i guess she doesnt love me."
what should i do?
-darkangel31 (link)
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Easy. Follow your heart, if nothing's holding you back, just do what your heart tells you to and what will make you happy, get back with him.
Just coz people says he's gnna break up with you doesnt mean you have to do it first. Thats not really how it works and no offense but its kinda stupid. I did that once and I regreted it also, because i found out he wasn't going to and people were just making it up for their friend coz he liked me and i didnt follow my heart, which left me heartbroken coz he didnt really want me anymore for doing what i did.
If he puts you thru sumthing, prove him that youre the best girlfriend there is (:
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im 16 years old girl. me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a year and 2 months. we used to be the best boyfriend ever! but here lately, it feels like things are changing. hes just been so rude to me. when he asks were i am, hes like were the fu*k are you and stuff. i love him so much and dont want to end it. i just dont know if being with him is worth it anymore. i dont know what to do if i should just end it or not (link)
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Hmm, you should ask him why he's treating you that way and just tell him straight forward that its hurting youu. Just think it through, think about the greatest memories you guys had together and compare it to you ending up without him. But if you really love him, just be there for him and find out why he's being like that. Show him how you really love him and maybe he'll start being nice to you again. If none of these work, take a lil break and make him miss you, make him realize that what he's done to you isn't the best and if he really loves you he'll come back for you (:
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So... I have known this guy for about three years. I have always had a crush on him, but was too shy to tell him. I hadn't seen him in a few months, and I basically stopped having a crush on him. But he is my friend on Facebook. Today, He posted on my wall 'You look like Kate Hudson.' I replied back, 'thanks, she is beautiful' then he posted, 'I know beautiful like you.' Of course I smiled and I kind of started to crush on him again. So he began sending me private messages. He was calling me sweetheart, saying he was going to see me, and also said he has always liked me. I told him that I used to have a crush on him too. He said, 'Why didn't you tell me? I would of asked you out.' Well, a little later while we were talking, he kept bringing us up. Saying stuff like, 'When we are both single we should go out' or 'I wish we was together.' Here is the problem... : He has a girlfriend. I feel bad because he has a GF and he is talking to me like this. I'm the type of person who believes you can cheat with words. I want to tell her, but it isn't my business and I don't even know her. Even though what he says makes me smile and feel warm inside, I wouldn't want to be with someone who would possibly talk to other girls in that way behind my back. So what I need is someones opinion. Do you think I should tell the GF and if they do break up, do you think it would be smart to go with him? By The Way, he is about to turn 17. (link)
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First, i dont think you should keep flirting with him or something coz you might get hurt that maybe he's just playing you especially that he has a gf, maybe he'll make you his second choice if he has no one to go to plus you'll probably get drama with his gf.
I knnw it hurts, especially when he's telling you all that stuff but most guys there, just tellls gurls that to have funn ndd thats what i think is going on because he has a gf ndd look to the future with him, if u guys do go ouut maybe he'll be talkin to girls like that too without you knowing?
But talk to him about it, ask him why he's telling you all that when he's not single ndd that he needs to make up his mind abt what he's gnna do and who he's gnna pick.
Ndd you shouldnt tell his gf, because that's his business to take care of.
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