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Im only 14 , but yet im talking about Love ... In most Love stories it always ends up perfect .. when the couple in love kisses usually the girl needs somthing to lean on to keep her from Fainting ... every girl wishes she could have tht feeling ... trust me you dont want it , because once it happens you never want it to leave and in my case it left me ... For another girl. But it's weird because i know exactly how he feels to be ignored rejected and not noticed because what i go through each day with him , wanting him to just talk to me , Is what he goes through with her. As bad as i wish he would just want to get back together i just wish he would be happy.. I know this is gonna sound wierd but i would rather see him with her and be happy then go through such pain and being alone .. i just dont want him sad ... no matter how much it hurts me ill still find a way to be happy if he is...I dont go a single second without him crossing my mind and i just hate it because i love him so much and he doesn't EVEN NO!! I really wanna get over him but i can't it's like everytime i think i have , i see him smile or hear his voice and it just starts all over again... You telling me to get over him isn't gonna cut it i want help on to find away back to his heart even if it means being friends .. Thanx For listening
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wow ya i think i know what you are going through. try calling or instant messaging this guy just casually say hey. start up a conversatin and start being friends with him again and see where it leads you. -- jess

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hey, well there is this older kid that i just started liking..he is so cute. I think we could be together, but we don't talk that much because he is never online. Do you think it could work out once i get to highschool?

well it depends how much older he is then you. sometimes getting into a realationship with some one older can be dangerous. but if you really like him and he likes you, then once you are in highschool you guys will probably go out. give it a chance if thats what you want.. love jess

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For some reason when guys eat me out it doesn't enthuse me at all. Even when i give a guy head he's all screaming up and orgasim and I'm just like what's the big deal? Then my best friend and her boyfriend got into a fight cause i slept with him. But HELLO i sleep with everybody's boyfriend is it really my fault I can get a guy to scream my name?

--- Horny 24/7

if u ever wanna fuck im here

i think you are some one who has no life and needs to make up this big story becuase they think it is funny.. YOU WANT SOME ADVICE? WELL HERE IT IS ..GET A LIFE.. byebye now

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My boyfriend is kind of the weirdest guy i ever met .. he smokes weed a lot! but i love him so much .. theres a huge problem though .. he never changes his shirt! What do i say to him without hurting his feelings? I mean i love him but change the damn shirt !

lol well atleast you love him for who he is... since he smokes weed alot..one day while he is stoned change his shirt for him..that way when hes not stoned anymore he will wake up with a new shirt on and not even remeber why.. love jess

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i have this boyfriend and he never changes his damn shirt? What should i say to him ? I mean i love him but god he needs to change that shirt !

you should buy him a shirt and tell him he looks really hot in it .. hope i helped..jess

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Jess, there is this guy who is older than me, not by much.. and he goes to the highschool. I've liked him for a while now, and he just started going out with another girl.. i'm so upset, what can i do?

awww hunnie..well first of all im taking it your still in middle school. or maybe just a year behind him. eather way it will be ok. right now i know you are hurting. believe me i know heartbreak is the worst pain. if he started going out with another girl, that doesnt mean he doesnt care about you. maybe he just can't be with a younger girl right now. in highschool theres alot of pressure from guys friends. maybe he just thinks he wont look "cool" if he dates another girl. just trust me if its ment to be it will happen. just give it time hunnie. and if he is not going to spend his time on you, then he is not worth it. just stay strong and hope for the best. always remeber there's a guy out there whoes ment for you, sometimes you gotta go thro a bunch of jerks before you find him.. i hope i helped you.. love jess

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dear jess..wat should i do i fi rele rele like like my best friends who is a girl but idk if she likes me back

alright..well when ever you need to know the truth from some one the best way to find it out is to ask them how they feel. if you want to know if this girl likes you, you should jsut straight out ask her. and if she likes you and you like her then you two will probably be together. and if she doesnt liek you back dont sweat it. theres so many girls out there and one day you will find the right one! i hope i helped you.. love jess

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dear jess.
i like this girl. she is much younger then me but i think i am fallin in luv wit her. i want to ask her out, but i herd she still loves this other kid. i am also afraid that ppl will think i am weird for likin a girl so much younger.
( iam 17 and she is 13) ..wut shuld i do

ok well, you being 17 and her being 13, to be honest you are a little old for her. but if she likes you and you like her then i guess love has no age limits. you should tell her how you feel and see how she responds. you shoulnd't rush to asking her out if you dont know how she feels becuase you dont want your heart to be broken.
if she still loves this other boy then maybe the time just isn't right for you and her, i hope i helped you

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jess -
ok, well there are bunches of kids at my school(the middle school at seymour) that tease me and say bad stuff about me..but one of them i really like, i dont know what to do..please help me..thank you

hunnie,
i am so sorry this is happening to you. the people who are teasing you have nothing better to do with there life then to tease you. thats wrong. the boy or girl you like who teases you if obviously breaking your heart. you should really avoid him or her so you don't get hurt even more. i know it is so hard to say goodbye to some one you like even if they are hurting you. if you don't want to completly ignore him or her heres another idea. if he or she is saying something bad to you, pull them aside and just ask them one on one why they get pleasure out of hurting your feelings. believe it or not but when u confront a bully with words like that, they usually back down. no one should make you feel bad about youself. i hope i helped, if you need anything else you can im me. or leave another post.. love always jess

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Jess...
everything in life right now is going down hill.. theres this boy who likes me and i like him but lately it just doesnt seem like it.. i wanna find ways to let him go but it is just too hard.. should i talk to him or what should i do

alright hunnie, jus calm dOwn.. things will get better .. if its hurting yOu tO hOld onto him, then maybe yOu should reconsider wut is better fOr yOu. sOmetimes it is sO hard tO let a bOy gO even if they are hurting yOu, in that case yOu shOuld approuch him and try and let him nOe hOw yOu feel. if he cares abOut yOu he will let yOu knOw. bOys are sOmetimes scared tO just gO up to a girl and tell her hOw he feels, sO they dO things that girls may find weird. but it might jus be his way of telling yOu he cares. yOu shOuld definitly gO up to him and try and get yOur feelings out if yOu want tO make things better... ii hOpe it helped, if anything changes post me another comment

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dear jess...
i am soo upset .. my boyfriend just dumped me becuase he thinks i cheated on him, i really didnt cheat on him and i dont know how to make him understand..please help me..

alright,
well hun first Of all , in a realatiOnship there needs tO be trust.. if theres nOt trust then yOUr realationship is rarely able to work out. yOu shOuld sit your ex-boyfriend down and explain to him hOw you feel. explain to him that yOu wouldn't cheat on him because you care to much about him. make him understand that he should be able to trust you..
thanx fOr writing tO me.. i hOpe i helped..
Love always Jess

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