Im only 14 , but yet im talking about Love ... In most Love stories it always ends up perfect .. when the couple in love kisses usually the girl needs somthing to lean on to keep her from Fainting ... every girl wishes she could have tht feeling ... trust me you dont want it , because once it happens you never want it to leave and in my case it left me ... For another girl. But it's weird because i know exactly how he feels to be ignored rejected and not noticed because what i go through each day with him , wanting him to just talk to me , Is what he goes through with her. As bad as i wish he would just want to get back together i just wish he would be happy.. I know this is gonna sound wierd but i would rather see him with her and be happy then go through such pain and being alone .. i just dont want him sad ... no matter how much it hurts me ill still find a way to be happy if he is...I dont go a single second without him crossing my mind and i just hate it because i love him so much and he doesn't EVEN NO!! I really wanna get over him but i can't it's like everytime i think i have , i see him smile or hear his voice and it just starts all over again... You telling me to get over him isn't gonna cut it i want help on to find away back to his heart even if it means being friends .. Thanx For listening
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wow ya i think i know what you are going through. try calling or instant messaging this guy just casually say hey. start up a conversatin and start being friends with him again and see where it leads you. -- jess
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jess.. my bestest friend in the whole world isn't going to be going to highschool with me.. im soo upset !! what should i do.. how will i know she wont forget me please helpp !
cree... i mean.. um... person who i dont know who you are .... she willl never ever ever forget you becuase she loves you more than anything. also no one could compare to the friendship we had.. i mean the friendship you and her had.... you guys will always be best friends.. maybe this will make you guys closer somehow.. LOVE ALWAYS AND ALWAYS AND ALWAYS JESS
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ok. i just moved here to seymour and i dont have any friends yet and its weird cuz ive lived in one place my whole life. do you have any advice to make new friends here? i tried but nobody really wants to be friends with the "new girl". it really hurts, please help?
alright well this is a hard thing.. believe me i know where you are coming from. i've been to eight different schools, and it is tough. try talking to people, always be friendly and try to make conversation. if you are friendly and you talk to people they can't ignore you. if you want you can im me and ill help you more.. love jess
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hey, well there is this older kid that i just started liking..he is so cute. I think we could be together, but we don't talk that much because he is never online. Do you think it could work out once i get to highschool?
well it depends how much older he is then you. sometimes getting into a realationship with some one older can be dangerous. but if you really like him and he likes you, then once you are in highschool you guys will probably go out. give it a chance if thats what you want.. love jess
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hey jess i have this friend who thinks i lied to them but i knoe for a fact that i didnt lie but they cant beleive me and now we dont talk to each other wut can i do to get her friendship back? thanks if you can help me
i cannot help you with this..for many reasons..and you know why
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jess- i found out my dog is slowly dying of like idk what kind of disease and im going to be so mad when it passes on do you think getting another dog after words would just make me sadder thanks for your help...
ok hunnie, i know what you are going through. my dog passed away and it was hard. chances are if it has a diseas he is not as happy as he use to be. so when it passes on he will be happier again. after it passes away you will be upset for a little while, but afterwards if you think a new dog will make you happy again then you should get a new dog. or if you are not ready to get a new dog then dont. you dont know how you are really going to feel about something until it happens, so wait until the time is right to make your descision. always follor your heart. i am so sorry about your dog though! stay strong hunnie you can make it though this i promise.. love always jess
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My frends boyfrend moved away recently how do i help her cope ?
um .. this is really hard to answer. when some ones boyfriend moves away it is always very hard to deal with. all i can tell you is that you should just be there for her if seh needs to talk, and if shes in a bad mood evry once in a while just ignore it becuase she will go through ups and downs. basically jsut talk to her about it .. love jess
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Thank you! I will take your advice about my spirituality and stop letting other people rule my life! Thank you. I asked many columnists this question but your advice was the best !!
thats awsome! this is your life and you do whatever you want to do! no one can tell you how to live your life.. glad i helped you.. love jess
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my famili is extremly poor and we can barely afford anything. My moms birthday is coming up and i want to get her something but i have a very limited amount of money. Do you have any ideas? Thanks so much.
aww i am very sorry to hear this. when there is a holiday and you give your parents something it does not matter what it is or how much you spent on it. usually parents are happy you are thinking of them. i dont want to sound corny but i bet if you make her a card and just write a long message about what she means to you it will mean more then any gift you could possibly buy her.. she will love it becuase its from you,,, love jess
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I am really religious and a bunch of kids make fun of me for it. I mean i cant help that my family's religous. Should i change for them or stay the way i am?
everyone has their different beliefs. if you are very religious then that is what you belive in. people should not make fun of you for your beliefs. never ever change youself for what other people think of you. when they make fun of you just look at them and say,
" haha ya your making fun of me beucase of something i belive in, wow you are so pathetic why dont you get a life." belive me it will work.. love ya jess
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Thanks so much for helping me and my brother! I appreciate that a lot ! I will take your advice because i know my brother is a great person and you are too !! thank you so much !
omg i am soo happy i helped you! my heart really goes out for you and your brother! i hope you stand up to those jerks hunnie.. love jess
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I am 5'4 and 145 pounds is that normal?
yes this is normal. everybody is differnt. some people are tall and slim looking other may be short and skinny and some may be tall and heavy or short and heavy. this does not mean that the heavy people eat more or dont excersise enough. belive it or not but it has alot to do with your immune system. if you have a fast immune system you will often be slimmer then some one with a slow immune system. when you are still growing your weight and hieght are going to change it does not mean you will be like this forver. you are completly normal and remember muscle weighs more then fat. hope i helped you.. love jess
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Thanks for your help about my nose!
Oh no problem hun, i hoped i helped you out.. love jess
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My brother has a mental disability and all the kids make fun of him. Since im his sister they make fun of me too. I try to ignore it but i cant. Please Help!
aww hunnie. hearing that people make fun of other people who have mental disabilitys is horrible. no one should make fun of people, especially for things they can't help. i am sure your brother is a great person, people are just too stupid to look beyond his disability and thats really too bad. when people make fun of other people like this believe it or not but they are the ones who need some serious help. the only reason they are making fun of you or there brother is actaully because they are most likely insecure with themselves. since they feel bad about themselves they pick on other people, which isn't right. next time they try to bully you try to be strong and have enough courage and just look them right in the eye and ask why they hell they pick on you and your brother ? if they respond to your comment rudly them just tell them how bad of a person then are, and believe me they will be sorry even if they don;t show it right away.. i hope i helped you.. love always jess
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omg jess.. i love you soo much you helped me so much! thanks for helping me out, i think it is so great what you are doing helping people. dont ever change..and i know you dont want people to talk about this on your website, but i am sorry about kyle, you guys were so cute together and i hope he moves back and you guys get back together..you guys are so meant to be. also the person who wrote that fake story about kyle getting them pregnant they are just so jelous of what you and kyle have beucase they dotn have that. ok sorry for writing so much but you made me feel so much better, so i just wanted to help you to. thanks jess
wow! you are soo sweet. i am so glad i helped you.. its so great to hear back from people and see how i made them feel better. lol its ok you wrote about kyle, i dont usually like people writing bout my life on this website but that was really sweet of you. its soo funny how u what you said bout that "pregnant" girl lol. that whole thing with me and kyle meant to be together... hmmm, i hope its true. anyways thanks again. love always jess
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i have a really big problem. my parent's friend has recently been diagnosed of HIV because he had loss of blood and had to have a blood transfusion. im really scared because he has been more of a parent than my actual parents and hes actually been a friend to me and now he has a disease that cant even be prevented? im so scared
ok listen calm down it will be okay. people who are diagnosed with HIV can live a longggg longgg lonngg life after they are dignosed keep your head up, because they will still be there for you.. i am so sorry though i hope i helped you.. love jess
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im really scared. i had surgery on my nose a little while ago because i broke it. and now everytime i talk my nose feels really strange. am i hallucinating or shuld i tell someone?
talk to your doctor about this just to be sure. i hope your ok..love jeess
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jess,
i have really low self-esteem and i am in 8th grade at sms and there is this group of popular girls who always make fun of me and call me nerd. one time i was so sick of it i went home crying and tried to kill myself but it didnt work. i feel horrible because i know im not born pretty like them and i dont have rich families and big houses like them and i feel like sh!t everyday. please, please help
omg hunnie! that is so sad. if these popular girls are making fun of you then they are the ones who are ugly.. i am not trying to get all mushy, but people who are that cruel to other people obviosuly have no heart! im sure you are pretty. killing yourself is never the answer becasue one day you will be happy. i can promise you that. you have a whole life ahead of you dont let a bunch of stuck up girls make your life hell. if you even feel suicidle again.. im me please i will help you.. love jess
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For some reason when guys eat me out it doesn't enthuse me at all. Even when i give a guy head he's all screaming up and orgasim and I'm just like what's the big deal? Then my best friend and her boyfriend got into a fight cause i slept with him. But HELLO i sleep with everybody's boyfriend is it really my fault I can get a guy to scream my name?
--- Horny 24/7
if u ever wanna fuck im here
i think you are some one who has no life and needs to make up this big story becuase they think it is funny.. YOU WANT SOME ADVICE? WELL HERE IT IS ..GET A LIFE.. byebye now
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Jess - ive been havin some problems with frends lately..we always fight but then we make up.. i dont understand nemore.. we're not real close but i dont wanna fight nemore.. and everytime we try to talk i get mad and flip out.. or say something foolish wut shuld i do?
Always -- Confused
alright well if you were close with theses people at one time, chances are they still care for you they are just letting there anger get the best of them. its hard to talk to a bunch of people at once so you should try talking to one of you friends one on one. if they still care about you then they will understand and let you speak your mind. if they flip out and are mean about it then they aren't good friends,and you should find people who really care about you.... love always jess
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