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Q: iv been with my bf for about a month and we havent kissed yet. i really wanna kiss him but im too shy to make the first move. Is there any signs or something i could do to get him to kiss me?
I'm going through the same thing. I guess, the only thing I can really say is, no one will know when it's the right time except you and him. Kissing isn't really something you plan on happening, I guess sometimes, but it's a lot easier for it to just happen when it happens. If you plan on it, you begin to think about it ALL day and wonder what he'll do, and if he wanted to kiss you, too. Trust me, you'll know when the time is right.

- Li'l SJV

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My and my "boyfriend" just broke up nine days ago. It feels like months, because he asked someone out right after he broke up with me. I was heartbroke, I was crying everynight. I'm no longer crying every night, but I still love him. I want to let him know; that I miss him & love him still. Even if he doesn't want me back. I'm thinking about asking him out again, after I get myself back together.

But he still has a girlfriend, it's completly obvious that the relationship between them won't last. It's sorta of a rebound-relationship. I haven't talk to him ONCE since the breakup. I don't want to ask him out right away. But, I don't know how to start talking to him again without it being really awkward. Help?
Well, it's possible that he might still like you, and he's just dating her to make you jealous. That is, unless he broke up with you.

If that's the case, and if you're sure you want him back, just call him on the phone, IM him, or if he's ever away from his girlfriend and everyone else, tell him how you feel. Think of something good to say, something that will make him want you back.

Or, you could just remind him of all of the good times you had with him, then he might in time find out that he's better off with you and no one else.

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My name is Samantha, Sam for short. I'm a pretty average person, I have a lot of friends, and I love giving advice, I will always think of the best answers to all of your questions. I love music, and absolutely hate homework. But I can always be trusted, and I can help with most anything. So if theres anything you have a question about, please feel free to ask me.




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